More Cuckolds and Bulls

Personally, I've never been able to understand that mindset (i.e. blokes who enjoy being humiliated and treated like dirt), but each to their own, I guess.

When does voyeurism (i.e. a bloke watchingfilming his GFMrs being fucked by another man) become cuckolding? Are they on the same spectrum? At what point does it become cuckolding - when the bloke starts taking orders?

I'm also curious about people who call themselves "bulls" (cough, splutter....). If I shag someone's wife, does that make me a "bull"? Or do I have to behave like an obnoxious and offensive bastard to the husband in order to qualify for the title?

Perhaps someone could enlighten me :-)

I have been involved at many stages of the spectrum from light to heavy. I do not consider myself dom, but can take charge and fulfil whatever commitment is expected.

The one thing that I think I have concluded whilst thinking about it in the quiet moments is that regardless of what anyone thinks, the guy who calls the shots is in fact the hubby.

One for the doms to think about....

I thank all for their input but am just always reminded of dictum of my first boss "always remember its only a deal if both sides like it"

And, yes, for someone to control there has to be the person that is prepared to let themselves be controlled, so, I agree, it can be argued that they are indeed the " causa proxima" as it were.

I've had quite a lot of experience being ogledfilmedphotographed by hubby while doing the wifeGF, but after a short while in each case, I got into it and ceased being aware of a third person in the room. I don't consider myself to be a dominant person but I suppose I have a preference for soft, feminine and yielding women, rather than those ones in the porn flicks who keep barking out orders. So what would that make me, I wonder: just a bloke who enjoys a good shag with a nice woman ?? :-) A "bull" ?? (lol)