Spring cleaning our friends list

As I state on my profile, I find this "friends" thing a total waste of time. If you are *really* "proper" friends with anyone, then both parties will know it: there's no need to advertise the fact. Most "friended" people just remain inert icons at the bottom of your profile and contribute nothing.

If you have an impulse to retain someone close to hand for "future reference" so to speak, the Hotlist works just fine, and the people there know they are not necessarily friends, but you've paid them the compliment of knowing you like them.

To be honest Skebbie, neither I nor my hubby are on here to make ' proper friends ', as we have more than enough of those in our everyday life, we are looking to make aquaintances that we can hook up with on a semi regular basis, and have great sex and a few laughs along the way in the bedroom , different strokes for different folks as they say, however, for me, far too many people on here just seem to wake up in the morning and click hot to every profile they come across, so the fact that someone has added me to their hotlist bears no meaning to me, however the people who stay long term on my friends list all know they are there as either we are hooking up or have hooked up and may do again, yes I do put people on my friends list who then get removed fairly quickly, but unfortunately people do not write ' I am a timewaster ' on their profile, lol very much wish they did, pmsl