It's that moment in time when you dont know how things will go? That little thrill of excitement tho at the thought. Meeting somebody for the first time is never easy. Will they actually turn up as arranged is always the big question? When I was younger I'd go along with suggestions to meet somebody outside the Cafe or bar to be able to walk in together. But after a number of no shows I thought bugger that! Did they turn up and kept walking on past cos they didn't like the look of me or what? I ll never know. But if they were that shallow we wouldn't have got on anyway. Now I agree to meet them inside. I get to have a nice comfortable seat, enjoy my coffee or drink. And can relax and take time out reading my magazine or a book. My time isn't wasted. If they should turn up for the meet then that is real bonus. As then the rest of the time can be spent in communication. Exploring who they are. Their likes and dislikes and finding out if we have any chemistry together to explore more. Anticipation is a wonderful exciting time in life when you can never tell how things will turn out!