This psychology makes sense?
I'm 43. He is 60. Although He is,in my eyes,nearer 40 in every manner.
We have met 3 young couples, no one older than 31 years. Two of them complete newbies, the other had had a one time experience. We never initiated contact with these couples, indeed it was them that 'chased' us. But fair to say we didn't try hard to get away! Now we have another young pair of funsters on our case and I don't believe in running away from pleasure!
The first 2 couples we took to clubs,as a way of introduction to this fun thing called swing. The 3rd we entertained at our house. Without any need for excessive detail;
Couple one kept to themselves on a shared bed. But later said they regretted no interaction?
Couple two, full on soft play. Nervous but delicious!
Couple three, relaxed in our house & company & an extremely relaxed fucktastic night occured!
But there lies the rub. WHY?
Why us? Why the comfort in a disproportionate age gap,for them? By our own free admission,we are not fit gym types. We aren't Munters,but won't be entering any Butlins Beauty Comps anytime soon!{All three couples had youthful bodies). We are easygoing & not pushy & never hold expectations? But so are many others,I guess?
I researched this & found American Phycology Studies had delved into a similar scenario. The answer & we truly do believe this, is Human Nature & safety.
The outcome led us to believe that we were of an age where "feelings" were unlikely to be misplaced. That G at 60 & myself at 43 posed no threat to these younger people's relationships? The females, only one had a "Daddy" thing(G loved it!) were 95% less likely to develop any 'crush'. The males 80% less likely to view this as anymore than an "older woman Shag"!
Now to be fair a good many older couples,or couples deemed of a more suitable age for us, have commented to us that they wouldn't opt for younger meets? Each to their own I guess?
But it's not an ego thing for us,totally not. We don't really age discriminate whatsoever,as it's more a chemistry thing. We chatted to those couples & offered them the truth, as we saw it.
