What are we really doing here?
We all come with an agenda. Whether it's More Sex, curiosity, or looking for a bit of love, I think we all arrived here looking for something.
I've been on the Hub long enough now to have met all kinds. The players, the romantics, the confused-as-hell-who-don't-know-what-they-want. I am still not sure which category I fit into.
I arrived here by accident. A friend invited me on so we could cam (major failure in all other cam options, so he suggested this site). At first I only chatted with him, this was NOT my kind of place. But as the PMs rolled in and I started chatting, I found that not all men here are sex crazed monsters who would take advantage of me.
I arrived here with a low sense of self esteem and zero self confidence. Is it so crazy to say that a swinger's site has changed my life? Well, it has.
Marriage for the past 20 years has been a never ending cycle of being beaten down for being who and what I am...namely, a sensitive, kind person who tended to trust maybe too easily. All sense of trust and respect has gone from my relationship with my husband, I feel none towards him or from him. It really IS just a matter of time before we divorce.
So what AM I doing here? I am having fun. I am chatting with and meeting men of all sorts, with no preconceived notions. I am learning to say NO to those I don't feel comfortable with. I am becoming a fun woman again. I am more comfortable with myself today than I have ever been in my life. This is what I am doing here.
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3:35 pm Sunday, 14th April, 2013
Katef01
Yet again, a great blog. I can't say this site has changed my life, yet! However, hearing from other women's replies to your blogs it is clear that we all come on here for a variety of reasons but most of all most of us just want to be respected. Too much to ask? For the first time a accepted a 'chat' from one of the members here. Clearly he will S... anything andor anybody. When I suggested meeting up for a coffee meet first to make sure that we got on as people he replied 'this is not a bloody dating site'. Maybe I am not right for this site after all. |
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5:30 pm Monday, 15th April, 2013
soul4kat
Sex lol it's what we have always come onto a swinging site for sex, we have found a fu@k buddy we have seen him twice and we going to see him again in about 3 months, just for sex, I think it's interesting reading peoples blogs and seeing what they want off this site it's kind of blew this swinging thing right open xxx |
