Getting started with BDSM
BDSM. Almost everyone wants to do it. Some have done it. Some are scared. Some just don't get the right partner.
There is a lack of understanding of what BDSM really is. And very recently I started exploring it and it was very refreshing (and wild!).
In a series of blog posts, I will attempt to share my experiences hoping it will help you experience BDSM in a non invasive way.
The first thing I did was to ask myself what I wanted to be. A Dom or a Sub? I have been both and I enjoy being a Dom more than a Sub. I have to admit I did enjoy the sub experience too.
If you are someone who like being controlled, you would make a good Sub. It helps if you are impatient as waiting for orgasm just adds pleasure.
If you are more patient and like to be in control, you would make a good Dom. I am good at planning things out and talking dirty and abusing, which has helped a lot.
There you go. That's the first things you decide... And I'll write up my recent Dom experience in my next post (hint: refer pic)
We have one life. Make the most of it.
