Draft Tuesday, May 25, 2021 6:24 PM
Some guys know exactly what they are into and what they are looking for. But some are still figuring themselves out and learning.Having trouble thinking of what you want to try in a session with me?
Please make a list, research and think just for yourself of the stuff you are interested in and what you like to try. Don’t leave anything out even if you assume a Pro Domme doesn’t do it. Remember this list is only for you.If you are unsure, here are some things to ask yourself and think about:
-What is drawing you towards seeing a Femdom in the first place?-What types of things on the internet or in your fantasies intrigue you?-Are you a submissive man? Meaning, do you like a Dominant woman to take charge and control you and surrendering yourself to her?-Are you the type who fantasizes about taking pain for a Dominant woman or crave pain (even if you are unsure how much pain you can handle and are afraid)? If so, you are likely a masochist. Some are light masochists, some are heavy masochists. Everyone is different. Or do you dislike receiving pain?-Do you fantasize about rubbing feet, fetching, coffee, worship a femdom and tending the needs from your Mistress in different ways as if you her owned property? Do you have a strong desire to belong to me and be trained by a dominatrix ? If so, you might be a deeper kind of submissive called a slave.-Are you into being restrained? Feeling helpless? You might want to list bondage/restraints-Are you a fetishist? Do you have a very strong attraction to a body part or an object such as feet, high heels, boots, leather, latex outfits, gloves for example? Stockings? Pantyhose? Does your ideal situation involve a Mistress dressed in shiny tight rubber? Or anything very specific that is an absolute need for you?-Are you interested in being degraded? Slapped in the face, spit at, called names, verbally cruel taunts, made to do demeaning things? Some are interested in light or severe forms of degradation.-Are you interested in being laughed at? Humiliated by your Mistress? Made to do silly and stupid activities that amuse her and maybe even her friends too? Are you interested in being their bossed-around court jester? You might enjoy light or severe humiliation-Are you into her ignoring you, using you as a chair, a foot rest, a table, even maybe a toilet? There to be a piece of furniture to her? An human ashtray while she smokes and ignores you? Then you are into objectification/human furniture play.-Are you into cross-dressing, complete with make-up, wigs, and training to be a woman in a very agreeable way?-Are you into being FORCED or MADE TO CROSSDRESS as a form of amusement for her, or punishment? Then you are into forced-feminization.-Are you into being cross-dressed in over the top frilly exaggerated feminine outfits and made to act extremely overly exaggeratedly feminine? You are probably into sissy training. Or being your Mistress’s sissy maid.
There are so many forms of BDSM play and session activities, but these above ideas are just a few examples of common ones to go on. Also think about session activities: Electro play, chastity, bondage, breath play, public outings, cuckolding and so on.
