How do you deal with a horny partner when you’re not in the mood?

11:17 am Saturday, 16^th March, 2013

This week’s question is one I really hope you all answer, because I’m looking for a bit of advice.

I love C. More than I’ve ever loved anyone else. But sometimes our sexual moods just don’t match. I’ve always had a high libido, but when work or life is stressful, I have a hard time thinking about sexytime.

I want to please C though. She would NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER pressure me into having sex if I didn’t want to, but the problem is that I DO want to…my mood just says otherwise.

So, sometimes I just do it. Even though I’m not in the mood.

I feel kind of crappy either way.

My advice to people is to break up if libidos do not match. C and I aren’t that far apart. Usually we both have fairly high sex drives.

I’m curious though – how do you and your partner deal with it when you have nights where one person wants to fuck and the other doesn’t?

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	2:43 pm Saturday, 16^th March, 2013 Fantasiesforu That's easy , just get me in cos I want to fuck all the time .....LOL
	1:55 pm Sunday, 17^th March, 2013 greasedpalm @fantasies...haha. nice
	2:00 pm Sunday, 17^th March, 2013 greasedpalm destiny65... i completely understand what your saying. as a guy you have to fulfil your 'duty' even if you are having a cardiac arrest..lol. its always good if both parties understand each others situation as maybe the guy is under some stress.. or he could be cheating, bummer!! maybe a little variation of routine will help, more spice into the mix..
	2:11 pm Sunday, 17^th March, 2013 greasedpalm Destiny 65... If it’s a regular problem, like in your case, I think that the relationship is going to suffer and it’s probably not right. Sex is more important than people give it credit for. a split could be an option
	2:11 pm Sunday, 17^th March, 2013 greasedpalm Destiny 65... If it’s a regular problem, like in your case, I think that the relationship is going to suffer and it’s probably not right. Sex is more important than people give it credit for. a split could be an option
	10:10 am Tuesday, 19^th March, 2013 Minxfun Destiny65, I understand exactly what you're going through; and feel the same way :-(
	2:51 pm Tuesday, 19^th March, 2013 drc55 Oh dear!!!img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"
	9:24 am Saturday, 23^rd March, 2013 greasedpalm Destiny65....Your lucky you got 3 beautiful children. Apparently it seems that your hand was forced. No condemnation from us. Seeing you tried so hard. Does he really want to throw away 15 years? that's a long time by any standards!! Hang in there..in the meantime play safe.
	9:28 am Saturday, 23^rd March, 2013 greasedpalm Minxfun...any suggestions to destiny65?

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