Draft Tuesday, April 13, 2021 8:29 AMd

Dailydesire

It is funny how people get off. So many different ways to get release: Physical or emotional closeness, taking care care of another or being taking care of, pain, humiliation, power, control or loss of control, physical or emotional pleasure, taboos exploration, pushing limits whether social or physical or emotional, and others that I am probably forgetting. Some of these are through giving while others are from receiving. The number of ways to get or receive gratification seems endless.


I always wonder how some people are perfectly content with just one or perhaps two of these ways. I wonder if they are scared to find more ways or what it could mean about themselves if they do enjoy more than the "traditional" outlets for gratification. Are they just boring or non-adventerous? Perhaps they are hiding what they feel could be "deviant" behavior.


The real questions I have are these....Why not try? Who is being hurt? Why deny yourself? Why let fear rule?


I am not saying to be unsafe. I am not saying to go tell the world...unless you want to. I am just posing questions for the rest of the world. Those here usually understand and feel the same way. We do not think there is anything wrong with what or how we want gratification. Nor should we apologize or deny ourselves.


I am facinated by how we think as people and our needs and desires as people. I may not agree but that is another discussion. I want to know your ways of getting gratification and why. Tell me. Male or female. Young or old...er.

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