Couple Swap: Our take on Same Room Vs Separate Room

7:24 pm Tuesday, 2nd March, 2021

danunthri

As for us and most couples, swapping is one key component of the relationship in the swinging lifestyle.


However, there is always an underlying question that comes with each encounter: Should couples enjoy the action in the same room, or should they head to separate rooms?. The short answer is, depends on the participants' preferences.
Personally, I and Danuthri, have experienced both of these situations and are comfortable to enjoy the session equally. But again, depending on our partner's preferences.

Swinging In the Same Room


When we started in to this lifestyle, one of the biggest kinks we both had was seeing each other indulging in sexual pleasures with someone else. So we had our initial meetups in the same room with other partners and we were so happy that the couples we met, honored our preferences.

One other reason to pick 'same room' in our initial steps was, Danuthri felt safe when I also play around her. She was still gaining her confidence and exploring comfortness at that time. And even when we started meeting couples in a group setting, we still sticked on to 'same room' at times because the view you have is such a turn on.

You will also find some couples enjoy being able to touch each other while couple swapping and may even take their primary partner to task a time or two, as well.
So for these reasons and if your preferences also matches to this, same room sex is the choice for you.

Swinging In Separate Rooms


We play in separate rooms when we are comfortable with our swinging partners. There are some of Danuthri's partners who she regularly plays with and who she is comfortable with; and every time we play, she drags the guy (in some occasions the girl) to a separate room for some alone time. She says that it's in fact a turn on for her to have a passionate session separately.

However there are some men—and a few women—who simply never get past homophobia where they simply cannot stand the idea of someone of the same sex seeing them naked. Some partners don’t care to watch their lover with another, as they would prefer to focus on their own pleasure by being in a separate room.

Swinging separately provides certain couples with greater levels of sexual freedom. In these cases, separate rooms can ensure everyone has a good time.

So what is your preference?. Would you go for same room or separate rooms?. Our comment section is open for you to share your experiences.




Comments

1:56 pm Thursday, 4th March, 2021 meshro

Good article ! Timely topic. For me its always what suits best for the present moment... keep writing guys.. cheers 💐

2:16 am Saturday, 6th March, 2021 kinkmastersCMB

This is a good analysis. I agree with you on all the points.

1:51 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 arunksi752

SHUT UP

1:56 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 higginsremov07

why not if the woman is willing i am sure i will turn them on then the session of love making will be better

2:12 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 vickyagar631

I think u like adventure 

2:15 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 tapanjo106

Hi

2:28 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 Hard14u45Lincoln

Same room

2:33 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 palmerles306

I would love to meet up with you soon xx 

2:49 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 Oneplusone20

Foreplay same room fucking separate .

3:00 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 rahul8507

💏

3:33 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 WiccanPolyCouple

We prefer separate rooms most of the time because we are both voyeurs and watching our partner play distracts us from who we are playing with. 

3:44 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 alars837

😱

3:57 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 ericra674

We like same room I enjoy seeing my husband with another woman and he likes seeing me with another guy such a good time

4:01 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 aashokalavan211

Same Room

4:11 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 bobge155

I would prefer the same room

4:13 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 morsho599

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. This could help me along my road at some point.

5:44 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 rameshgutti959

Hello

7:14 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 gupta439

I want to meet you friend

7:42 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 ScorpioLibraCouple

We go with how the "dynamics" of the event goes.  There have been instances where we play in the same room, and others where we play in different rooms.

8:13 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021 hemu7

Yes ,My experience says that after initially in same room will enjoy as worm ups.Once gey confidence then later on separate room will give more active lady rather then in front of her hubby.
She feel more free to do what she like to do fun which may be not able to perform in front of hubby..may hubby may get upset ..

5:46 am Wednesday, 10th March, 2021 coolsat972

Hi

11:49 am Thursday, 11th March, 2021 psy567

Separate room 

6:23 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 singhyuv929

Hi

6:26 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 jafrullak439

Hi

6:26 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 lat295

It all depends on the couple's relationship. I go with the flow

6:31 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 jyem141

Fuck yeah!! My dream has come true! You's would be willing to show me the ropes. I'm new to this but want to try new things 

6:36 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 mc1203

My GF and I usually prefer same rooms because of what you mentioned...it is a total turn on for us to watch one another with other people...plus we like turning it into a larger group play also where pretty much anything goes and you can move around to other people.

6:42 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 che746poona

I want only real meet and sex not time pass I m searching only sex partner 

6:44 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 Sandumar582

Hello xx

6:48 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 amritku580



Seperate rooms as someone always gets jelous or one out performs the other and suddenly there is a spark between the new girl that your fucking and if you make her orgasm multiple and her bf is a dud well thats when its a recipe for diaster separate rooms and it will go well every time 

6:49 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 amitr302

I want to lick ur juicy pussy in front of ur patner till u cum on my face baby

7:00 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 john2327aucklqnd

Hey

7:01 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 penel893

We’ve only just started on the Swinging scene, but one of my fantasies is watching my husband fucking, licking and sucking another woman! Can’t wait.we’ve found a couple who like the same, so,as soon as we get the go ahead from Boris, we’ll be in the same room!

7:07 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 aslamsha238

Im top

7:08 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 shibukuma340

Hello  xxxx

7:25 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 rslnfrdz79

We  love as couples! Real turn on!!!!

7:32 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 larrycurtsjenk722

If she likes it....I love it!!

7:34 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 amitvik367

Where are you located

7:34 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 chunkp059

Love to come and join in 

8:02 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 malusand541

Watching the other couple first then gradually  joing in with their permission, not being pushy  and slowly enjoying each other 

8:13 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 IEandY

We've always been same room until we really get to know a couple and then still want to be able to hear and be close to one another. That's the reason why we have a large king-sized bed. 

8:27 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 aruld300

Nice

8:31 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 Nolry

Fantastic reading 

8:43 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 winston155

I would love the same room.Am bi curious and have no boundaries.

9:15 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 nicecouple1919

We prefer the same room as we both enjoy seeing the other experiencing the enjoyment of having sex with another person while touching or holding hands with each other.

9:24 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 kikiandwicky

We would luv to try seperate wit right coupl

9:25 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 jessicacro334Chicago

Same room!!! 

9:26 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 gstuartlo756

My husband and I are very interested in you after the pandemic ends we can travel to Sri Lanka  As a woman I would be interested in passionate love making with both of you Very interested in bi and lesbian lovemaking I love to eat a delicious pussy 

9:54 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 Gdubbs47

I haven't ever got the chance to experience swapping partners but I kinda like the idea ! Anyway I think that if I do ever get the chance to experience it I would choose the separate rooms for the first time anyway ! Then after I got a little more comfortable with it I wouldn't mind the same room so much !

10:39 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 Looking4more665

I am new to this life style and have played in the same room as well as meeting separately. 
As you said a person’s comfortability is the key.  
I enjoy both but get to have more fun when separated. 
Enjoy and be safe.  

11:28 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 Coppaleb

Same room lol 

11:31 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 kyree2121

Was good me in my wife trying new things so y’all same cool 

11:40 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 billJeanette69

We will play same or seperate rooms but if playing seperate we have a doors open only policy 

11:58 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021 Coolrico19

I don’t care I would do a threesome no problem 

12:02 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 lura4677

I prefer same room for comfortable n safety of partner.

12:56 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 nani1826

Same room we prefer... That's comfortable for me and my partner. And fired🔥😋

1:01 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 monusah422

I will prefer same room

1:08 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 ravired113

Sameroom

1:19 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 rja624

It doesn't matter to me same room or separate rooms we are there to have fun and enjoy each other our joy enjoy the group so long as the guy leaves me alone I don't have no problem with it and as long as he doesn't try to play around with me I don't have a problem with it👅👍

1:41 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 ps72kumar

Hai good morning

1:45 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 Ramcharanrath458

Nice

1:46 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 Devu7

Separate room

1:46 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 Devu7

Separate room

2:25 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 aravindve243

I thought separate room

2:25 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 aravindve243

I thought separate room

2:34 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 pvdamodarb077

Separate room

2:37 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 jandk069

Big fan of both

3:09 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 gavaska114

Separate room

3:15 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 mdssal219

Separate room

3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 mdssal219

Separate room

3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 mdssal219

Separate room

👄

3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 mdssal219

Separate room

👄

3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 mdssal219

Separate room

👄

3:21 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 ami122mmxey

 Women

3:41 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 dharmendrasinhr827

👄👌

4:03 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 tejkris181

Joint

4:27 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 acs18

Separate rooms give maximum pleasure 

4:42 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 Max1269

Different room 

4:45 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 zai361

Same room ....mor ppl more plsr...😍💕

4:49 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 news565

Both rooms.

5:03 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 srivi728

Swinging is seperate room will be more comfort & pleasure   

5:05 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 vikashgu975

Okay but I have more 

5:21 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 nage001

Super I like

5:24 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 rpkesarw802

I prefer the same room escapades because it ensures safety, enhancement of sexual level and self confidence.

5:28 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 neeraj248Delhi

Prefer both rooms

5:30 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 jbc00FortWorth

We know first time with a new couple can be intense . Me and my wife just like to meet interesting and outgoing people. As long as we both are having fun we don't care 

5:54 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 umeshluckydar445

Me oolu hu kya

6:03 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 vinkum296

Like ur comforts

6:36 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 singhrajku084

I prefer dame room for comfortable n safety of partner

6:39 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 ar0101Lucknow

Same room

6:49 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 ComeplaymeMelbourne

Same room 

6:54 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 abhijitraj20

Separate room will  be good

7:10 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 JohanWitb650

Same room

9:04 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 anuraghel995

Good

9:28 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 Gv196

Hi👌

9:43 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 fxglu87

it is very true experience. It is more enjoyable to have three sum like mfm and fmf which turns on and on. but Homophobias explained in this article  is accurate and right 

9:43 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 mukut873

Separate room

9:58 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 gordoGlasgow

Same room

10:07 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 wildfire20Ernakulam

Same room

10:26 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 sahilsoh958

 I like separate room

10:26 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 sahilsoh958

11:17 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 mohsinya446

Wow great value 💕

11:36 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 rajendraj287

Same room

11:58 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021 NIlesh7544

Hi

12:17 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021 boranav245

मanpassnd partner ho or romantic room h  to jhulla jhulne ka 

1:58 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021 sc041

No same room , I like separate room

3:39 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021 vtc28

Separate rooms are better ever,
With concentration,,, 💞,,, 
You can spent your time with your beloved one, 
You can have fun with hesitation free mind, 
There will not be any disturbance, 
Can have pleasure as per demand, action and many more 💞 

7:00 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021 Shudhakarpanchb167

Thank you,

10:50 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021 jamdhadedhanan331

Hi

8:06 am Sunday, 14th March, 2021 selvampu270

Very very super ❤️💓

8:06 am Sunday, 14th March, 2021 selvampu270

Very very super ❤️💓

11:27 am Sunday, 14th March, 2021 Janujane

Hello

12:27 pm Sunday, 14th March, 2021 kharba336

💕

5:38 pm Sunday, 14th March, 2021 sand706Ranchi

I don't have any such experience

1:01 am Monday, 15th March, 2021 rdxcjm

depends on the people involved,,,,

4:20 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021 santoshpadel519

hi

5:00 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021 dipakraur108

एक दिन सोथा तेरे पास पुरा सात ईच का लंड दालथा तेरे गांड मे

6:46 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021 Venkey76

Hi

10:23 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021 juliobenitezguardi830

Gooooooooooooood!

10:23 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021 juliobenitezguardi830

Gooooooooooooood!

1:27 am Tuesday, 16th March, 2021 venkateshannam30

Ok

10:59 pm Wednesday, 17th March, 2021 Ricconobikenow20

Always same room for us 

8:04 pm Friday, 19th March, 2021 rajibborgoh670umqqx

Same room

3:27 pm Tuesday, 30th March, 2021 Shockenall1967

Either way

6:50 am Wednesday, 20th October, 2021 jimmytw842

Hi how u 

2:49 am Friday, 31st December, 2021 slcouple89

Nicely written and bang on to the point 👍

3:44 pm Monday, 11th March, 2024 Cade69x

More of this! 🤩

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