As for us and most couples, swapping is one key component of the relationship in the swinging lifestyle.
However, there is always an underlying question that comes with each encounter: Should couples enjoy the action in the same room, or should they head to separate rooms?. The short answer is, depends on the participants' preferences.
Personally, I and Danuthri, have experienced both of these situations and are comfortable to enjoy the session equally. But again, depending on our partner's preferences.
Swinging In the Same Room
When we started in to this lifestyle, one of the biggest kinks we both had was seeing each other indulging in sexual pleasures with someone else. So we had our initial meetups in the same room with other partners and we were so happy that the couples we met, honored our preferences.
One other reason to pick 'same room' in our initial steps was, Danuthri felt safe when I also play around her. She was still gaining her confidence and exploring comfortness at that time. And even when we started meeting couples in a group setting, we still sticked on to 'same room' at times because the view you have is such a turn on.
You will also find some couples enjoy being able to touch each other while couple swapping and may even take their primary partner to task a time or two, as well.
So for these reasons and if your preferences also matches to this, same room sex is the choice for you.
Swinging In Separate Rooms
We play in separate rooms when we are comfortable with our swinging partners. There are some of Danuthri's partners who she regularly plays with and who she is comfortable with; and every time we play, she drags the guy (in some occasions the girl) to a separate room for some alone time. She says that it's in fact a turn on for her to have a passionate session separately.
However there are some men—and a few women—who simply never get past homophobia where they simply cannot stand the idea of someone of the same sex seeing them naked. Some partners don’t care to watch their lover with another, as they would prefer to focus on their own pleasure by being in a separate room.
Swinging separately provides certain couples with greater levels of sexual freedom. In these cases, separate rooms can ensure everyone has a good time.
So what is your preference?. Would you go for same room or separate rooms?. Our comment section is open for you to share your experiences.
1:56 pm Thursday, 4th March, 2021
meshro
Good article ! Timely topic. For me its always what suits best for the present moment... keep writing guys.. cheers 💐 |
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2:16 am Saturday, 6th March, 2021
kinkmastersCMB
This is a good analysis. I agree with you on all the points. |
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1:51 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
arunksi752
SHUT UP |
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1:56 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
higginsremov07
why not if the woman is willing i am sure i will turn them on then the session of love making will be better |
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2:12 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
vickyagar631
I think u like adventure |
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2:15 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
tapanjo106
Hi |
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2:28 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
Hard14u45Lincoln
Same room |
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2:33 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
palmerles306
I would love to meet up with you soon xx |
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2:49 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
Oneplusone20
Foreplay same room fucking separate . |
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3:00 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
rahul8507
💏 |
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3:33 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
WiccanPolyCouple
We prefer separate rooms most of the time because we are both voyeurs and watching our partner play distracts us from who we are playing with. |
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3:44 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
alars837
😱 |
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3:57 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
ericra674
We like same room I enjoy seeing my husband with another woman and he likes seeing me with another guy such a good time |
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4:01 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
aashokalavan211
Same Room |
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4:11 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
bobge155
I would prefer the same room |
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4:13 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
morsho599
Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. This could help me along my road at some point. |
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5:44 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
rameshgutti959
Hello |
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7:14 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
gupta439
I want to meet you friend |
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7:42 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
ScorpioLibraCouple
We go with how the "dynamics" of the event goes. There have been instances where we play in the same room, and others where we play in different rooms. |
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8:13 pm Tuesday, 9th March, 2021
hemu7
Yes ,My experience says that after initially in same room will enjoy as worm ups.Once gey confidence then later on separate room will give more active lady rather then in front of her hubby. |
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5:46 am Wednesday, 10th March, 2021
coolsat972
Hi |
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11:49 am Thursday, 11th March, 2021
psy567
Separate room |
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6:23 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
singhyuv929
Hi |
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6:26 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
jafrullak439
Hi |
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6:26 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
lat295
It all depends on the couple's relationship. I go with the flow |
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6:31 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
jyem141
Fuck yeah!! My dream has come true! You's would be willing to show me the ropes. I'm new to this but want to try new things |
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6:36 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
mc1203
My GF and I usually prefer same rooms because of what you mentioned...it is a total turn on for us to watch one another with other people...plus we like turning it into a larger group play also where pretty much anything goes and you can move around to other people. |
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6:42 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
che746poona
I want only real meet and sex not time pass I m searching only sex partner |
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6:44 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
Sandumar582
Hello xx |
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6:48 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
amritku580
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6:49 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
amitr302
I want to lick ur juicy pussy in front of ur patner till u cum on my face baby |
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7:00 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
john2327aucklqnd
Hey |
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7:01 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
penel893
We’ve only just started on the Swinging scene, but one of my fantasies is watching my husband fucking, licking and sucking another woman! Can’t wait.we’ve found a couple who like the same, so,as soon as we get the go ahead from Boris, we’ll be in the same room! |
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7:07 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
aslamsha238
Im top |
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7:08 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
shibukuma340
Hello xxxx |
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7:25 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
rslnfrdz79
We love as couples! Real turn on!!!! |
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7:32 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
larrycurtsjenk722
If she likes it....I love it!! |
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7:34 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
amitvik367
Where are you located |
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7:34 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
chunkp059
Love to come and join in |
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8:02 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
malusand541
Watching the other couple first then gradually joing in with their permission, not being pushy and slowly enjoying each other |
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8:13 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
IEandY
We've always been same room until we really get to know a couple and then still want to be able to hear and be close to one another. That's the reason why we have a large king-sized bed. |
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8:27 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
aruld300
Nice |
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8:31 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
Nolry
Fantastic reading |
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8:43 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
winston155
I would love the same room.Am bi curious and have no boundaries. |
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9:15 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
nicecouple1919
We prefer the same room as we both enjoy seeing the other experiencing the enjoyment of having sex with another person while touching or holding hands with each other. |
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9:24 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
kikiandwicky
We would luv to try seperate wit right coupl |
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9:25 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
jessicacro334Chicago
Same room!!! |
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9:26 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
gstuartlo756
My husband and I are very interested in you after the pandemic ends we can travel to Sri Lanka As a woman I would be interested in passionate love making with both of you Very interested in bi and lesbian lovemaking I love to eat a delicious pussy |
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9:54 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
Gdubbs47
I haven't ever got the chance to experience swapping partners but I kinda like the idea ! Anyway I think that if I do ever get the chance to experience it I would choose the separate rooms for the first time anyway ! Then after I got a little more comfortable with it I wouldn't mind the same room so much ! |
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10:39 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
Looking4more665
I am new to this life style and have played in the same room as well as meeting separately. |
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11:28 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
Coppaleb
Same room lol |
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11:31 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
kyree2121
Was good me in my wife trying new things so y’all same cool |
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11:40 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
billJeanette69
We will play same or seperate rooms but if playing seperate we have a doors open only policy |
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11:58 pm Friday, 12th March, 2021
Coolrico19
I don’t care I would do a threesome no problem |
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12:02 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
lura4677
I prefer same room for comfortable n safety of partner. |
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12:56 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
nani1826
Same room we prefer... That's comfortable for me and my partner. And fired🔥😋 |
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1:01 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
monusah422
I will prefer same room |
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1:08 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
ravired113
Sameroom |
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1:19 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
rja624
It doesn't matter to me same room or separate rooms we are there to have fun and enjoy each other our joy enjoy the group so long as the guy leaves me alone I don't have no problem with it and as long as he doesn't try to play around with me I don't have a problem with it👅👍 |
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1:41 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
ps72kumar
Hai good morning |
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1:45 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
Ramcharanrath458
Nice |
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1:46 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
Devu7
Separate room |
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1:46 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
Devu7
Separate room |
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2:25 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
aravindve243
I thought separate room |
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2:25 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
aravindve243
I thought separate room |
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2:34 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
pvdamodarb077
Separate room |
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2:37 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
jandk069
Big fan of both |
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3:09 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
gavaska114
Separate room |
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3:15 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
mdssal219
Separate room |
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3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
mdssal219
Separate room |
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3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
mdssal219
Separate room |
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3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
mdssal219
Separate room |
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3:16 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
mdssal219
Separate room |
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3:21 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
ami122mmxey
Women |
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3:41 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
dharmendrasinhr827
👄👌 |
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4:03 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
tejkris181
Joint |
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4:27 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
acs18
Separate rooms give maximum pleasure |
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4:42 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
Max1269
Different room |
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4:45 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
zai361
Same room ....mor ppl more plsr...😍💕 |
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4:49 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
news565
Both rooms. |
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5:03 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
srivi728
Swinging is seperate room will be more comfort & pleasure |
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5:05 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
vikashgu975
Okay but I have more |
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5:21 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
nage001
Super I like |
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5:24 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
rpkesarw802
I prefer the same room escapades because it ensures safety, enhancement of sexual level and self confidence. |
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5:28 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
neeraj248Delhi
Prefer both rooms |
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5:30 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
jbc00FortWorth
We know first time with a new couple can be intense . Me and my wife just like to meet interesting and outgoing people. As long as we both are having fun we don't care |
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5:54 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
umeshluckydar445
Me oolu hu kya |
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6:03 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
vinkum296
Like ur comforts |
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6:36 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
singhrajku084
I prefer dame room for comfortable n safety of partner |
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6:39 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
ar0101Lucknow
Same room |
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6:49 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
ComeplaymeMelbourne
Same room |
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6:54 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
abhijitraj20
Separate room will be good |
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7:10 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
JohanWitb650
Same room |
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9:04 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
anuraghel995
Good |
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9:28 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
Gv196
Hi👌 |
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9:43 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
fxglu87
it is very true experience. It is more enjoyable to have three sum like mfm and fmf which turns on and on. but Homophobias explained in this article is accurate and right |
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9:43 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
mukut873
Separate room |
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9:58 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
gordoGlasgow
Same room |
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10:07 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
wildfire20Ernakulam
Same room |
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10:26 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
sahilsoh958
I like separate room |
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10:26 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
sahilsoh958
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11:17 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
mohsinya446
Wow great value 💕 |
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11:36 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
rajendraj287
Same room |
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11:58 am Saturday, 13th March, 2021
NIlesh7544
Hi |
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12:17 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021
boranav245
मanpassnd partner ho or romantic room h to jhulla jhulne ka |
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1:58 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021
sc041
No same room , I like separate room |
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3:39 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021
vtc28
Separate rooms are better ever, |
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7:00 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021
Shudhakarpanchb167
Thank you, |
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10:50 pm Saturday, 13th March, 2021
jamdhadedhanan331
Hi |
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8:06 am Sunday, 14th March, 2021
selvampu270
Very very super ❤️💓 |
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8:06 am Sunday, 14th March, 2021
selvampu270
Very very super ❤️💓 |
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11:27 am Sunday, 14th March, 2021
Janujane
Hello |
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12:27 pm Sunday, 14th March, 2021
kharba336
💕 |
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5:38 pm Sunday, 14th March, 2021
sand706Ranchi
I don't have any such experience |
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1:01 am Monday, 15th March, 2021
rdxcjm
depends on the people involved,,,, |
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4:20 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021
santoshpadel519
hi |
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5:00 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021
dipakraur108
एक दिन सोथा तेरे पास पुरा सात ईच का लंड दालथा तेरे गांड मे |
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6:46 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021
Venkey76
Hi |
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10:23 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021
juliobenitezguardi830
Gooooooooooooood! |
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10:23 pm Monday, 15th March, 2021
juliobenitezguardi830
Gooooooooooooood! |
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1:27 am Tuesday, 16th March, 2021
venkateshannam30
Ok |
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10:59 pm Wednesday, 17th March, 2021
Ricconobikenow20
Always same room for us |
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8:04 pm Friday, 19th March, 2021
rajibborgoh670umqqx
Same room |
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3:27 pm Tuesday, 30th March, 2021
Shockenall1967
Either way |
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6:50 am Wednesday, 20th October, 2021
jimmytw842
Hi how u |
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2:49 am Friday, 31st December, 2021
slcouple89
Nicely written and bang on to the point 👍 |
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3:44 pm Monday, 11th March, 2024
Cade69x
More of this! 🤩 |