OK here goes a blog for the poly...
After much, much, much discussion over many months we finally decided what we think is missing In our relationship, not just sexually but stimulatingly as well and that is another female... Big surprise 🙄 you might think, as it is the most common fantasy admittedly; it was the female that decided to bring this subject up for discussion and has ploughed through site after site to try and find "The missing piece" so far nothing has come of this search apart from people are very much thinkers and not doers they like the idea but won't step in to reality, this is fine and each to their own but it is frustrating for genuine people that have struggled with their sexuality, desires etc it takes courage to openly admit what you want from a relationship, from life even, anyway I digress.. Our journey has not got far we're still in the "looking" stage mainly due to covid (we've been looking for 17 months) what's the main reason that this female has decided to invite another one in the relationship? That was not easy to answer or hear and I'll continue this tomorrow but if anyone has anything to add, their own experiences, kind thoughts etc please do so, I'm hoping that by blogging this it will help ease some of the emotional build up while trying to discover who I am and what I and us as a couple need from a relationship in order to be happy.
