Tips for Newbie Subs and Littles
Gidday all,
Am new to this BDSM Blog, however as a natural born Dom, I have to admit my kinky and dominant controlling side, did not cum to the fore till my late 20s.
Nowadays, being in my 50s and well established and broadly experienced, I adore and thoroughly enjoy guiding and coaching submissive Newbie single and Bi women, and the occasional couples, in the art of Submission.
It has recently been brought to my attention, there are concerning numbers of rogue and bogus "Doms and Masters" out there, who want nothing more than taking advantage of young Newbies, and are totally disrespectful of the usual personal limits, boundaries, and the commonly accepted Safe Word and Action process.
So in a nutshell, if you are hot to learn and explore and try a variety of new Dom / Sub experiences, the following tips are freely outlined :-
#1 A connection is the Doorway, and Communication is the key.
The Site message system and private emails are a good place to start to get to know your next lover. However, it is usually more effective means of communication and best to Talk and not Type, either on web cam software or by direct phone calls. Beware as scammers are everywhere on-line !
#2 Trust your gut feelings. Over-powering messages and emails, from identities who obviously have a strong agenda, and do not directly answer your questions or options provided, are often not genuinely interested in your needs and personal circumstances at all.
#3 For your own personal protection and safety as a willing Sub, ALWAYS ask any and every future potential Dom or Daddy or Master, if they are genuinely able to respect your personal boundaries and limits, and are cool with the usual Safe Word and Action practice.
Yes, and finally - we all want fun and great new experiences in this kinky lifestyle without any hassles or disappointments, which are the main aims of providing the above guidelines.
