Threesomes, foursomes and orgies: Is swinging healthy for a relationship? (12)

3:11 pm Wednesday, 2^nd December, 2020

'You want to swing but you don't want the experience to ruin your relationship...'

Q: How much difference is there between fantasy and reality when it comes to swinging, "wife swapping" or threesomes?

A: First of all, yes, as you do, most people know that there is a huge difference between fantasy and reality. Getting turned on by something in your mind is often very different to witnessing something in real life, or participating in it, and still finding the graphic reality of it genuinely erotic. And not just during, but afterwards as well.

Proceed with caution! Threesomes and sharing your sexual bed are a common fantasy, for both men and women, but it’s important to be aware that fantasy is very different from reality. Both partners should be excited by the idea of trying a threesome. Participating in a threesome to please your partner is not a good idea. Before engaging in a threesome, make sure you and your partner have discussed it thoroughly. And then discussed it thoroughly again. And then again exhausted the topic so you are both as sure as you can be and you’ve examined the idea from every angle, so to speak.

It’s very difficult to anticipate how a threesome, or a swinging partner swap, might affect your relationship. Do you both genuinely feel you won’t be jealous, of each other, or the other sexual partner? Be very sure about this, because as much as you say you won’t be jealous, it can very easily be ignited when you share your bed and intimacy with an extra person or two or three. Once you have a threesome, once you switch partners and add lovers, you don't go back; those images are burned on your brain. Threesomes and swinging can be wildly exciting, for some, but can also just as easily be wickedly erosive to a relationship. You should discuss boundaries and negotiate agreements with your partner, and the third person or other couple(s), before starting. Who can kiss whom? Who can watch whom? Who can penetrate whom? It’s really important to be clear with each other before you experiment.

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I'm 27 years old, living in the Siliguri region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 49.