What turns me on! - Class in one word

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I love classy women. (and couples). And classy does not mean belonging to upper class (in terms of wealth). To me following are the key traits of classy people


a. Well educated. And again education doesn't mean only fancy degrees but also being well read, well traveled, having hobbies (other than sex) etc. Ones ability to talk on variety of topics is important. While language is important too....am not stuck on English being impeccable (though I prefer English as spoken language). If you can speak well in Hindi...I am good.


b. Well kept and groomed - There are three parts to appearances. One is our features...how god made us...and beyond our control. But being fit is something that is in our control. And hygiene and how we dress up again is totally in our control. A simple denim with white shirt, a cotton saree, or just a plain dress.... they do not cost the world...but how you carry them does change things quite a lot


c. Kink/Erotic Quotient. We all know of IQ and EQ, but to me KQ or kink quotient is very key. To be eroticism does not lie in just 'hard and rough' sex...but it lies in your imagination. The teasing, flirting, building up the play, holding back and pushing the limits, extended foreplay, dirty talks, talks about fantasies/roleplays.....all these are important ingredients. And its important that no one judges each other on these. My friend wants to be a paid slut to powerful men....now thats a fantasy that she loves, and maybe will live one day, but that doesn't make her a bad person. Just expressive woman who knows what she wants


These too me are key things that I look for when interacting with any woman/couple.

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