Our Guide for Starting Your Swinging life (A Practical Guide Part-3)

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THE DO'S OF SWINGING:


Taking time and investing sincerest efforts to examine the possibility of swinging with your partner and acknowledging and accepting what you both need from the experience, is the best thing to do before venturing into it. Now is your opportunity to experience your fantasies so discard your fears and inhibitions and be a go-getter.


Moreover, be sure that you both need to do it and for the correct reasons. More often and quite frequently female partners are influenced and pressurized to engage in this lifestyle. To enjoy profoundly joyful neither partners should feel, forced or influenced to do anything they would prefer not to do in the first place.


Be certain that the experience won’t harm your existing relationship with your partner. This is your key responsibility and you both need to persistently reassess it and discussion about the impacts, positive and negative, that might have on your relationship.


You should understand and always keep in mind that a this relationship can grow much bitter if this idea evolves to a point of much more than fulfilling fantasies.


Be truthful and honest when you talk to your partner about your feelings. If you feel jealous of your partner, or have any other uncomfortable feelings about the whole sexual step, tell your partner. If you don’t, they will only come out later and be much more awkward and damaging.


Keep in mind the possibilities of obsession is perhaps sexy and tempting given it’s not overpowering your senses. So, agree on rules and limits with your partner before you participate in it.


On the off chance that you want to break those rules, modify them or improvise them with your partner’s consent. Likewise, in case you’re not content with something that is going on, speak your mind immediately as opposed to letting the situation get out of hand.


Tell the other couples what your limits are and ask what theirs are. Do whatever it takes not to pass judgment if theirs are more liberal than yours. Engage in a transparent discussion with each other what you like and what they like.


Moreover, talk about what you’re searching for in the experience and furthermore tune in to what they’re seeking after. You have to understand what turns them on and off and in a similar manner, they have to know the same about you.


Once you get to that point, be yourself and don’t pretend to be someone else. Being friendly, good-natured and exuding a warm aura has a positive effect on everyone. Leaving your inhibitions at home, both physical and social is a must as it can interfere with your swinging pleasure.


You can’t expect to get much out if you aren’t prepared enough to put much in. Stay close to your partner, but not in a clingy way as it may ward off others from approaching either of you. Know your needs, interests and desires and let everyone know about them. Always safety first and be within limits, even if you intend to try new things.


Do keep in mind that freedom for each other matters and never restrict on anything.


Do keep your encounters with each other absolutely discrete. If you’re taking photographs or recordings of the encounter, ensure that you share them among the participating members not others.


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