My 4 step plan for our first threesome
There seems to be a certain category of couples on this site, which includes us: those that are happily married, have never tried anything with anyone else, but fantasize about a threesome. But when pushed comes to shove, would they actually do it?
Not only that, but I suspect that in many cases one of the partners is looking into this, maybe without the other partner knowing. And so what do you do, apart from panic, if someone responds and suggests a hot meeting?
I’ve thought this through, and here is the 4 step plan I’m hoping to suggest to my other half:
1: Start small, and don’t try and jump the gun. The first (and most difficult?) step is to find another suitable couple, and suggest to my other half that we just meet socially. At least there will be some interests in common to break the ice!
2: If that goes well, step two is to meet again somewhere a little more private, and indulge in sex with my own partner, with the others watching. And watch the others! This for us would be a big step, and hopefully will give us some indication if we want to take things further.
3: The third step involves just touching, for example giving a 6-hand massage to each person. The partner can do what he or she wants, and the other couple can massage other parts of the body, or more if everyone is OK. And possibly spice things up and blindfold the message receiver, or even use massage oil …
4: And finally, now that everyone has seen and touched everyone else, and watched them have an orgasm, the decision to have a threesome or not should be a lot easier. And even if the decision is no, a lot of fun has already been had!
I think my other half might just buy into this; I’m off to ask them.
If anyone with more experience knows of a better plan, then let me know. And if anyone wants to help us achieve our plan, that’s even better!
If all goes to plan, I’ll post another blog and let you know…
