2nd meet: full of surprises and learnings of swinging

After first swap fun we were quite happy and relaxed. What we learn from the first fun is that that every relationship is different. The people in it agree upon the boundaries, shape and form of it, there is no universal formula. What’s interesting though, is the process of creating that consciously, explicitly, mindfully. Many people get married with all kinds of pre-formed assumptions about what that means. They sometimes don’t even talk in depth about it, they just allow the traditions of their culture to dictate the boundaries and rules.When we meet other couples that swing, they are able to describe what they do, what they don’t, what they are comfortable with and not. It varies greatly. The rules are determined by the couple together.


So the risk we took was fruitful and things start working in our relation like:
1. Communication, patience and tolerance between us start growing through this experience.


2. As we admit that we start feeling monotonous over time, as monogamy can have that effect on many sexual beings. Being involved in the swap help to open up a whole other realm of possibilities.We were feeling greater satisfaction for each other.


3. Being in relation with consensual partner swap totally sweeps away any forms of jealousy or misunderstanding in our relationship and actually makes the bond stronger.


So, we were quite happy with the things which were happening in life anyhow. So, after around a month I asked to Neha "Next plan kb krna hai"!!She simply smiled as usual and said “Lagta hai Doctor kuch jyada hi mje de gyi” and a cunning smile. I keep myself quiet and waited for her to respond further. She said “I am neutral now,if you are willing to enjoy I am Ok but pls ensure that no mistake should happen!!
So considering it a green signal, I started exploring again or can say start killing my time. To find a perfect couple is a challenge here and i realized it again well.It became tougher when the first experience was so good and that pressure was on me that our next fun shall be at par with the past one.


But this life style is no so easy to maintain. We started interacting with new couples. Last couple was perfect fun but we read somewhere that it’s not a good idea to meet same couple again and again as we may have some emotional attachments as well. So considering the theoretical concept in mind, we were in the race again. We came across with various type of people during this process (will try to write something on type of people we met in some other post).Finally, after around 2.5 months next couple was finalized.


Again, booked hotel and plan to meet them. Well educated, good looking and decent couple was in front of us.They told they are well experienced in this life style. During the initial conversations we came to know that they meet new people almost every week and its active part of their life style. We start drinking and talks continues. We both are not regular drinkers and prefer Beer/Vodka (1-2 peg) for some fun moments. The lady was an OLD Monk lover and start drinking heavily. After some time, guy asked me to start fun with his wife. As a respect of words, I came close to her but the lady denied and said I need some more time. So without any hurry we continued the talks and finally the lady almost finished the bottle of OLD MONK.


Then she came to me and whispered in my ears “Mr. SUMIT, I am not interested in you rather I am interested in your Wife”.I look at Neha and was speechless.Neha asked me what happen-I smiled and said you are looking more hot baby and this young lady wish to play with you first.She smiled and said “KUCH Bhi”.


There was silence in room for next 02 minutes and then the guy said Dont worry bro..she is joking....Suddenly lady said I am not joking and I wana play with Neha.We both have straight sex orientation and I was not able to handle the situation and just smiling like ki all is well dude all is well.


With some courage, I asked Neha you wana try bisexual fun.neha said NO.The lady give us a lecture of 5-8 minutes on bisexual fun that har ladki ke andr ek lasbo hoti hai bs we need to reveal it out.After listening her ek baar k liye muje b lga aisa hota hoga and i doubt on me as well and I was little curious to see Neha in a lasbo fun.


Neha said, OK let it give a try and Kamna start playing with Neha.After spending 10-15 minutes Kamna gave up and accept the truth. Now the lady came to me and she start playing with me.To be honest, she was an awesome sucker and I was litelry enjoying it.For a moment I forget what neha and other guy is doing. The guy was excited to see us and asked neha lets sit and watch Sumit and Kamna.They both were just nude and watching us.In the meantime, he tried to play wid Neha and neha also try to be engage with him but guy was taking more intrest in watching us. Suddenly, she call her hubby and said u wana taste it.Guy was just waiting for the invitation and start sucking mine.They both were sucking mine.


After some time, guy goes back to Neha and start playing with her.In the meantime, I fuck the lady hard and followed all her instructions and honesty learned some new things as well.I was involved deeply with her and actually enjoying the moments and didnt notice that Neha was looking at me and eagerly waiting for me.After a long time the fun ends and we were back to our room.


I was quite happy and asked neha hows the fun baby and OMG Next 1 hour was a big fight between we two.Lot of arguments and a big big flight.Neha start crying. She said when the guy was not able to do something it’s absolutely fine but you can involve me in your fun.Our arguments continues and we check out early morning and back to home with a totally fuck off mood. Lot of thoughts in mind “ what all happend..all shit is because of the stupid guy as he was not able to do anything.Blaming neha also in my thoughts that Neha is not happy and feeling Jealous when I am enjoying and bla bla bla.We didn’t speak that day and both were annoyed. In the night I took the initiative and asked her politely pls tell me what is the issue? She simply said-I don’t have any complaint with that guy or lady, I have a big complaint to you that you forget me.When I was sitting alone you must involve or come back to me.I must be your first priority, she added.


I realized that I have done a blunder and it’s my mistake, but I asked Neha why don’t you come to me.She replied, I was observing you that whether you will call me or not.So, I accept my mistake and ordered a smart watch for Neha to see a smile on her face.


What we conclude from this experience that this life style is not every time fun and we should be ready for some worst as well. Also, make your own rules before playing.


**RULE 2: Always set your rules along with your partner.**

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