Don't be Shy People!!

deege45

Hi everyone and happy Friday! Welcome once again to the dullest blog you'll ever read on this site!
Our topic is pics!! I'm seeing more avatars then pics lately and I have ask myself why? The general answer is usually, "I don't want someone to recognize me on this site and tell the world." I think that if someone recognizes you on here, the chances of you getting called out are slim to none because THEY ARE ON THE SAME SITE!! We're all here for the same thing folks and if they are here as well and say something to you about it...help them down from their high horse and ask what reasons they have for being here. If they tell you to spread their values and morales on to you, I'll bet anything that they are saying that from their throne of lies. They aren't here to save your soul and show you the error of your ways.
The other answer I hear quite often is because, "I'm ashamed of the way I look." Believe me people, if I worried about that all the time I would have absolutely no fun at all! Put your pic out there! Don't be ashamed of yourself or what others might think! The worst that can happen is they either tell you they are not interested or won't reply at all. Happens all the time folks. Trust me I get my share of rejection, but honestly if you're too timid to put up at least one photo, then maybe you're too timid for this site period. Sorry for any hurt feelings but I don't think I'm wrong for being honest.
When I look at a profile and only see an avatar then I have no choice other then to think you are far too shy for me. Have some confidence folks! I'm sure you look amazing! If the person you messaged shows no interest who cares? You haven't met them yet anyway right? I never considered myself overly handsome, but even I was surprised and shocked at the amount of messages I get daily! Oh and don't be afraid to write stuff out about yourself. But be honest! That's the only advice I can give. I think most people would agree that if there is no pic, they probably won't respond because nobody here is looking to meet up with a cartoon character. Unless of course you're into that.
Thanks for reading folks! I hope you have a great weekend! 🙂

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