POWER, who really has it.

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You know, that first command really sets the hook in deep in a D/s adventure .  Starting off a session heavy, sweet, sexy,domineering & harsh doesn't compare to that first sentence in a "tops" vocabulary. Even if nothing is said, a harsh hand grab screams a lot of how the next few minutes, hours, days goes.  No words are spoken, your shoulders feel heavy hands pressing down on them & you know where you aught to be is kneeling on the floor.  Right there is where the power struggle goes into effect.  Does the sub give in or resist?  Well....if the dominant one is good and attentive, its a learning process. Resistance means WAIT! take a minute here and 'deal' with me.  So the road toward punishment is found isn't it. The sub wants to be treated differently than the Dom intends, so power is directed in that moment by whom, the sub. Now don't get me wrong here guys, the Dom retakes power and delivers what is appropriate for the moment. After all, the Dom has a plan for the sub as you are going to obey in the end. The fun comes in the journey!  You do not 'want' to kneel on the floor, or are you needing power to kneel you on the floor.  The wonderful thing about this relationship is the exchange that happens over & over. There are some relationships where power is ultimately directed by the Dom no matter what, but to me, that is leaning toward no relationship and slavery. I'm NOT going there!  So in conclusion, i think the sub has the real power and the Dom knows how to use it against them by pushing the limits toward the safe word.  So if you find yourself lying face down on a table bound to the gills w/heavy ropes or chains or wire ties with a stinging backside,  remember..in one way or another...you asked for it! ..Thoughts anyone?  scout  

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