Assume he misunderstood the swinging or polygamy anymore

Smartbusinessman

Hey!! If you need to ‘convince’ someone to swing or threesome means you don’t understand what swinging or polygamy is all about and that person is obviously not ready either. No one has to ever ‘convince’ anyone to swing! If you need to convince then someone is going to have regrets and someone will resent it later. Swinging or polygamy is something that you either want to try or you don’t. You can influence and other person.. you can share your ideas and views and you can plant the seed in their mind .. but that’s it! There is NOTHING more you can do or should do about it. Talk about it yes.. but you can’t force someone and you surely you can’t convince someone.. it’s not a debate .. it’s not a argument .. it’s not like you need to convince your wife to let you buy a bigger TV.. THAT needs convincing.. swinging .. that needs to come from within each person. Please don’t go around asking others how to convince your wife. That actually is the most important part of a couples journey into swinging. Each couple has their own individual experience and learnings. No two experiences are the same and what worked for one couple might be disaster for you. So please stop asking us or others on how to convince your wife .. she’s YOUR wife! You know her better than random strangers ... if you don’t know how to influence her or encourage her or help her .. no one else can and you only make a fool of yourself when you ask others to help you in this very important and private discussion with your spouse. . . . . .

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