"Mind Blowing Sex" what's its all about...

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"Mind Blowing Sex" what’s all about..
To my beloved opposite sex – She , the Goddess
What is "Mind Blowing Sex?" Damned good. It's when you feel as if you can do or say anything. Conversely- it's when I babble insanitities and nonsense or cry out. It's when I call him God and I mean it. Not some power in the universe- my partner. She is the Goddess. She makes me feel alive. She makes me feel like a man. She makes me feel like a God. When it's over, mind blowing sex is exhausting! I'm hungry, I'm tired. It's when I'll say whatever I feel and damned the consequences-because I am really alive and it's OK.

Most people equate sex with a close emotional relationship. I've had incredibly mind blowing sex- more than once. There is one person that I absolutely love sex with. She's like a drug to me. Sex is physical. It can be enhanced and complicated with an emotional relationship, but sex itself is physical. The greatest sex that I've ever had in my life has always been with people that understood that. We've had a sexual relationship and a friendly relationship, but not a strongly emotional one. I have had mind blowing sex with more than one person. It's not related to your ideal of perfect body type either. It's related to touch and doing what feels good and between the two of you and who cares about the rules.
The reason is communication. The number one thing that makes sex great is communication. The second thing is interest and willingness. An emotional relationship complicates sex because you are afraid to hurt the other person.
It's not really about knowing specific techniques although some understanding of the basics is good. Basics (Know when a women is wet/non-wet. Light touch initially on a clit, Don't fuck a woman's clit when she's not wet, use lube if you need to.)
More precisely make your partner comfortable & make her express like “"I want you to touch me here." "Move over." "Get your ass against my cock." "I want your mouth on me now." "Let it out I want to hear you cry." "It's ok." "I love watching you come." "I want to see that look again." "Turn over." "Come here." "Scoot down here." "Watch the teeth."
It's about wanting to touch your partner and doing so and knowing that they will be willing to either enjoy it and go with the flow or have the guts to say, "slow down" "No" "I'm nervous." "what are you doing." "leave my ass alone." "what the fuck are you doing?" "careful" "Yes." "Hell yes." "MORE" "Please don't stop." "Still."
It's about listening when they tell you fantasies and being willing to play with that. "Yes, I'm Daddy's little girl, and I won't tell mom and Daddy I was asleep and Daddy you should spank me because I'm so bad to like it when you come in my room and you like to hear me scream." "You're such a who*e and Daddy's girl and you like it when Daddy comes and fucks you." "I'm going to fuck you for wasting Daddy's time."

It's about trust. Knowing that anything really new would start slow, but it might go somewhere really hot. It's about knowing that whatever is not OK with the rest of the world is OK and that feeling like an animal and being wild makes for incredible sex. Breaking the rules. Breaking the rules of society and being willing to feel like a slut or an animal. Loving the result. Loving that, one wants to take you to that point.
It's about touch and movement and knowing that if something isn't working at the time so what. You move. You change positions. You fuck in different positions. You don't fuck. You touch. You kiss. You pee/piss. You crash and talk and then suck cock. You sit on his face. Movement and willingness. There is no goal and if there is no goal- then you can keep going. Maybe that is the moment when he touches you and starts playing enough that you get wet enough that he fists you without lube. That's hot. That's intense. That's mind-blowing. It's only one thing though.
Mind-blowing sex isn't about using a technique. It's not even necessarily about a hard cock or toys. Toys can be fun, but that just isn't it. Mind blowing sex is about touching. Touching each other where it just feels good. That may be slow or fast or moving to a better position or crawling all over the bed. It may be about you moving so that he can better reach your pussy because you want his fingers to touch you and finding yourself splayed all over his body. It may be about having sex with your head hanging off the bed one day. It is about the confidence to want something and go after it. Cocks don't stay hard all the time. That's life. But a man can touch a woman, and a woman can touch a man.
At some level, great sex is about focus. Focus on pleasing your partner. For men, there is a lot about slowing down and paying attention to her. Having a goal in the back of your head that you are going to please her before you come. (Doesn't always happen, but having that goal is important. Each and every time.) Turning her way on, making her come, and then considering that your starting point for sex where she can start again is a great place to start for great sex. Often, men get turned on and don't focus on a women's pleasure. One thing that men should know if you really want to please a woman- Women are really, really damn good at trying to please you and setting their own pleasure aside. They will turn you on, make you come and later wonder why sex was nothing special- again. Keep your jeans on and buttoned until she's been come and begging you to fuck her. You'll learn how to pay attention to her. Women are a lot more sensitive and responsive after they've come once.
What is bad sex? I've had that too. It's sex that looks like porn. Get over it and get over it fast. It's sex that is hung up on just one technique. I love my hair pulled and I love being bit. Most often in mindblowing sex neither will never happen, but in some really bad sex with someone who knows what I want it does. Sometimes in bad sex a technique will get used just because someone thinks it's the right path or the right touch because it works sometimes and doesn't pay any attention to the moment. (Overuse.) Bad sex is when the male thinks that sex is all about him coming, but doesn't think about her pleasure.

Mind-blowing sex is wonderful and bad sex can be so disruptive to a relationship (Even its a NSA one). It hurts.
Find all those ways to make it happen- whatever path works for you, and I believe that there are many many ways to great sex.

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