Hot and Horny Long Distance Fun

12:18 pm Tuesday, 21^st January, 2020

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Thanks to the ease of international travel the world is our oyster. You can go anywhere you like and experience new cultures and new fruits (forbidden or otherwise) given you have the cash and the time.

Good Sex Is Not Off The Travel Menu

The downside can be when your partner has to travel halfway across the world leaving you high and dry with no one to shag but yourself. Here are 7 tips for keeping things hot and horny till you can tear each other’s clothes off in person again:

1. Talk Dirty To Me

While you won’t be able to touch, and in some cases even see, your partner one of the sexiest tools we have is our imaginations. Pair that with some deliciously dirty talk and you can have your partner groaning and shaking their way to an orgasm while you whisper dirty nothings in their ear.

2. Play A New Role

With the shield of space between you, this could a great time to try something new without the risk of embarrassing yourself in the bedroom. If you’re normally more passive play the role of dom. Test the waters by giving firm descriptive instructions to your partner. Where to touch themselves, what to moan, do they stay still or beg for more. You lead the way and see how it goes. It may become something you carry over from the phone to the home once your trip is over.

3. A Salute To Sexting

Not ready to commit to jumping into dirty talk just yet? No problem, give sexting a try. It gives you time to formulate your ideas, plan out your fantasies and then share them with your partner.
It’s a fun way to engage as it’s a naughty secret you can share regardless of where you are. Stuck in a boring meeting? What could be more entertaining than your lover describing what they want to be doing to you under the boardroom table while the speaker drones on?

4. Pictures Speak Volumes

Spice up your sexts with a few lip bitingly sexy photos. Sexy doesn’t necessarily mean fully exposed. If you’re trying the erotic photo route for the first time check out some boudoir photoshoots first and emulate one you like the look of.
If you know your partner likes nothing left to the imagination perhaps send them a saucy pic when you know they’ll be hard-pressed to do anything about. Make them “shiver with anti… cipation”.

5. Setup A Video Sex Date

In the same way that you would plan a naughty date night together plan one online. With high-quality video streaming on your phone or laptop plan a time to chat and reconnect. Relive the excitement of those slutty text messages and breathy phone calls and follow it up with some erotic mutual masturbation – what better way to get yourself off than watching your partner do the same.

6. Leave Behind A Sexy Surprise

A great way to up the excitement of all the above is to include the use of sex toys. Whether its something as tame as cuffs or as giggle-inducing a fantasy-themed dildo having your partner discover and use this real-life sex toy with you watching, listening or instructing from miles away will definitely lead to some earth-shattering orgasm – on both side of the conversation.

7. Tech-Toys To The Rescue

For the tech-junkies, there are even Teledildonics (also known as cyberdildonics) which are sex toys that you can control via remote. Have your partner use a toy like the OhMiBod or We-Vibe while you control their pleasure levels from afar.
Travelling in a place that doesn’t have a great internet connection? A range of these sex toys come with movies where the actions and intensity level are synched to scenes on screen for a smutty combination of sight and experience.

Don’t Be Shy

What is your favourite tip for keeping your partner hot and horny while you travel? Let us know what you found worked best, or if you had any funny faux pas that we can all learn from. If we missed anything special, please add to the list. Leave a comment below.

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