12 Signs That You Are More Than Friends With Benefits

10:57 am Tuesday, 7th February, 2017

SiteAdminChaz

It’s late at night, you got drunk with the girls and now you’re feeling horny, so you message your standard booty call. But this time something is different. You don’t just want a quick drunken no strings fumble, you want their arms wrapped around you as you fall asleep together after a hot night between the sheets.

Here are 12 sure signs that you are heading into more-than-bed-buddies territory.

You spend the night together


Pleading you to stay the night for a good spooning after a hot night of forking, waking up together the next morning to continue the previous night's action. Breakfast anyone?

You become interested in each other’s day to day life


It's not all about talking dirty in the bedroom anymore, now you start to ask how each other's days have been and what they have planned for the weekend.

Take pictures together


It’s not just the drunken naughty nudes you send to each other to express how turned on you are, but you are now taking pictures of the both of you snuggled up on the sofa watching a film. Shouldn't you be in the bedroom?

You spend time together outside of the bedroom


The hot messy drunken sex was the focus, but now you are meeting up for drinks and to catch a movie. Starting the night together and not just the end, if I am not mistaken but that is a date.

Sharing and tagging each other on social media


You briefly discussed your mutual love for funny cat videos and now you are tagging each other in every video you can find. You also discussed your mutual love for bondage but that would just be inappropriate for family and friends to see popping up on their newsfeed. ;-)

Marked territory


You leave small items at each other's places, such as knickers for example, if you had any on when you arrived that is! Pinching their t-shirts so you can wear them every single night, unwashed and breathing in their scent as reminders of your bedroom antics until your next encounter.

Always on your mind


No longer daydreaming about what to have for lunch,but you are thinking about all the naughty things you want to do to him when you next hookup.

You’ve met his friends


They casually introduce you to their mates when you bump into each other on a night out. Ok...we know you both planned to be in the same place at the same time so you could sneak off together...naughty.

You miss them when they're not around


You aren't just craving the dirty drunken sex but now desire their attention. Wanting their hands and kisses all over you. The bed feels really empty without them.

He’s eager to please during sex


They are making every effort to learn what will make you squirm, moan and even scream during your late night hookups, leaving you coming back for more and more.

You plan things together


Seeing beautiful locations across the world on social media and discussing how much sex you could have in the hot tub overlooking the sea, to the point when you want to book that holiday right away.

You are less secretive about him


Your friends now know the name of your “just a friend”. It is becoming harder to keep your sexcapades a secret, especially when they leave you with a cheeky smile remembering what you did together last weekend.

With “not catching feelings” being the biggest rule of being FWB, let's face it...it's a hard rule to follow and aren't rules made to be broken? Tell us your stories of dealing with a FWB situation. Did you catch feelings? Or did you follow the number 1 rule?




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