5 Fun and Flirty Message Tips to Keep The Guys Coming
9:45 am Thursday, 19th January, 2017
Guys like a girl with a sense of humour. Is that a tiger he is posing with in his profile picture? Perhaps a snap from his recent holiday? Maybe inject some humour into that first message with: “I see from your profile picture you have a tiger as a pet. I wonder how you would cope handing a wild animal in bed? Teasing someone in a light-hearted way can create instant intimacy and his response will reveal whether he can take a joke.
Netspeak, bad grammar, and bad spelling are massive turn-offs for both men and women. Be literate, the way we speak to friends doesn’t mean it will work in dating. Surprisingly, studies show that expressions of amusement such as ’haha’ and ‘lol’ are exceptions to the ‘no netspeak’ rule with higher response rates. So in short, “Ur realy hot. Wot ya doin Fri?” is a no-no, but letting him know you can have a laugh will give him a confidence boost for better conversation.
Think about the type of message you would like to see from someone. Simply throwing out a “Hi”, “Hey” or “Hello” is going to get an equally boring response back. Overloading him with your life story in your first message is not going to improve your chances either. Finding the balance is key. You're attracted to this guy, not trying to bore him.
A romantic dinner date or Netflix and chill? Asking these questions is a really good way to suss out common interests and you can almost guarantee the answers will get a little naughty if you want them to.
Yes, he looks super hot in his profile picture, but play it cool. Studies show that messages with the words sexy, beautiful, hot and cutie, fizzle out after a short time. Focus on how awesome his profile bio sounds. Chances are he knows he looks good, that's why he put that shirtless picture on his profile.
The casual dating world can be fun if you know how to do it right, Who doesn’t love that tingling feeling you get downstairs when someone you're attracted to is reciprocating and showing the same interest? So what do you think? Have you tried any of these and how did things turn out?
Men love it when a girl makes the first move, what guy wouldn't find it exciting when a beautiful woman focuses all of her attention on him. Ensure your profile shows off your personality and have a super sexy photo to go with it. Share your interests and tell him what turns you on.
If you want to get ahead of the game, try a few of these fun and flirty tips to guarantee him coming back for more.
Pick one thing from his profile and be playful
Guys like a girl with a sense of humour. Is that a tiger he is posing with in his profile picture? Perhaps a snap from his recent holiday? Maybe inject some humour into that first message with: “I see from your profile picture you have a tiger as a pet. I wonder how you would cope handing a wild animal in bed? Teasing someone in a light-hearted way can create instant intimacy and his response will reveal whether he can take a joke.
Proper punctuation is sexy
Netspeak, bad grammar, and bad spelling are massive turn-offs for both men and women. Be literate, the way we speak to friends doesn’t mean it will work in dating. Surprisingly, studies show that expressions of amusement such as ’haha’ and ‘lol’ are exceptions to the ‘no netspeak’ rule with higher response rates. So in short, “Ur realy hot. Wot ya doin Fri?” is a no-no, but letting him know you can have a laugh will give him a confidence boost for better conversation.
Keep it short and flirty
Think about the type of message you would like to see from someone. Simply throwing out a “Hi”, “Hey” or “Hello” is going to get an equally boring response back. Overloading him with your life story in your first message is not going to improve your chances either. Finding the balance is key. You're attracted to this guy, not trying to bore him.
Get a game going
A romantic dinner date or Netflix and chill? Asking these questions is a really good way to suss out common interests and you can almost guarantee the answers will get a little naughty if you want them to.
Avoid the cheese
Yes, he looks super hot in his profile picture, but play it cool. Studies show that messages with the words sexy, beautiful, hot and cutie, fizzle out after a short time. Focus on how awesome his profile bio sounds. Chances are he knows he looks good, that's why he put that shirtless picture on his profile.
The casual dating world can be fun if you know how to do it right, Who doesn’t love that tingling feeling you get downstairs when someone you're attracted to is reciprocating and showing the same interest? So what do you think? Have you tried any of these and how did things turn out?
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