Is Your Casual Relationship More Serious Than You Think?
10:05 am Friday, 27th September, 2013
Perhaps on reflection you may actually enjoy a more committed status of relationship and would like to attempt raising what you have to the next level. If however this isn’t your cup of tea and you enjoy your freedom preferring to keep what relationship you do possess confined to your boudoir then you’d better check this article for signs that you may be sliding further into something serious than you would appreciate any time soon.
Does your “other half” ever suggest doing “quality” activities outside of the bedchambers or further than kitchen lino? Maybe they want to go see a movie or even just a supposedly innocent stroll down town together, the fact that they’re attempting to arrange plans outside of your organised antics suggests that they’re trying to spend more time with you and bond more.
If they plan any event in the not so near future that involves you, well they can imagine life a long period of time from now with you in it and that sounds a bit like commitment. A meet up arranged within a casual set up will most likely be planned a few weeks in advance at most depending on each person’s responsibilities and lifestyles, so anything more than that may be questionable.
Ah, the infamous left toothbrush scenario, they may simply have forgotten it or they could have purposefully left it behind. If the latter, this suggests they don’t see your arrangement as one where it could be called off at any time due to the casual nature of it, they’re assuming they will be back to your place and very soon if they can make do without cleaning their teeth!
If they lovingly gaze at you, or look pro longingly into your eyes then it’s a sign that they’re thinking in wonder of how amazing and special you are and imagining their future with you in it. As opposed to what a horny, tasty sex bomb you are and about jumping your bones at any given second.
Little attempts at affection such as hand holding or hair stroking also suggest they don’t feel quite as platonically about you as you do them. Then there’s the affectionate terms they call you the little “honey” or “teddy” thrown in here and there. All signs they could feel stronger towards you than you may about them.
Be careful when making a decision regarding saving or cutting ties with your lover. Whilst it’s for their own good that you nip anything in the bud to save them as much heartache as possible, you may also lose out on a great fuck buddy that you’ve just been getting mixed signals from. Maybe a chat where you sit down and clarify what you both feel for one another and reaffirm the guidelines to your agreement would be a good idea to consider before acting upon anything.
So you’ve got a hottie that you regularly meet with for a good, no strings attached bonk and are enjoying a casual set up where you’re still free to shop around for talent and taste the goods at the same time. Nice and commitment free, or so you think...
Could scant, relationship-like behaviours have snuck their way through and set up camp right under your nose without you even catching a sniff on the breeze before it was too late?
To Be, Or Not To Be Casual?
Perhaps on reflection you may actually enjoy a more committed status of relationship and would like to attempt raising what you have to the next level. If however this isn’t your cup of tea and you enjoy your freedom preferring to keep what relationship you do possess confined to your boudoir then you’d better check this article for signs that you may be sliding further into something serious than you would appreciate any time soon.
Quality Time
Does your “other half” ever suggest doing “quality” activities outside of the bedchambers or further than kitchen lino? Maybe they want to go see a movie or even just a supposedly innocent stroll down town together, the fact that they’re attempting to arrange plans outside of your organised antics suggests that they’re trying to spend more time with you and bond more.
See Into The Future
If they plan any event in the not so near future that involves you, well they can imagine life a long period of time from now with you in it and that sounds a bit like commitment. A meet up arranged within a casual set up will most likely be planned a few weeks in advance at most depending on each person’s responsibilities and lifestyles, so anything more than that may be questionable.
Don't Forget Your Toothbrush
Ah, the infamous left toothbrush scenario, they may simply have forgotten it or they could have purposefully left it behind. If the latter, this suggests they don’t see your arrangement as one where it could be called off at any time due to the casual nature of it, they’re assuming they will be back to your place and very soon if they can make do without cleaning their teeth!
You Have Beautiful Eyes
If they lovingly gaze at you, or look pro longingly into your eyes then it’s a sign that they’re thinking in wonder of how amazing and special you are and imagining their future with you in it. As opposed to what a horny, tasty sex bomb you are and about jumping your bones at any given second.
Ah Pumpkin!
Little attempts at affection such as hand holding or hair stroking also suggest they don’t feel quite as platonically about you as you do them. Then there’s the affectionate terms they call you the little “honey” or “teddy” thrown in here and there. All signs they could feel stronger towards you than you may about them.
Be careful when making a decision regarding saving or cutting ties with your lover. Whilst it’s for their own good that you nip anything in the bud to save them as much heartache as possible, you may also lose out on a great fuck buddy that you’ve just been getting mixed signals from. Maybe a chat where you sit down and clarify what you both feel for one another and reaffirm the guidelines to your agreement would be a good idea to consider before acting upon anything.
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