Odd title to start off with I guess. But something I which think everyone asks them self and something that many of us never truly find the answer too. I can’t say multiple women at the same time is top of my list but swapping partners is. There’s just something about the sexual tension on the build up to something like that which really gets me going. outdoor fun is something else that I have a craving for but haven’t acted upon yet for good reason. I live in Scotland so outdoor sex is either freezing or your get attacked by miggies lol. But a big part of my reason for not doing it is knowing what’s what with it. Is it something that is pre-arranged and your need to be in the right loop or is it a case of just turning up. And if it is just turning up then how do you know if they are outdoor fun or just having sex? A minefield some might say lol
And I feel these are the tame fantasy’s which I have. I guess, to really enjoy life I’m just going to have to be open and accept that some people might find fantasy’s I have as a turn off. It the risk we all take