I continuously get mail messages alerts, I cant read the messages, let alone respond back. I would ask someone how to use this site, but then...I wouldn't be able to read their response. It does appear there are a few good possibilities here, but without being able to respond back it will never be confirmed. I refuse to purchase blindly into a membership of any kind, I have been burned twice before. Before, all the mail I was receiving was from the site administrators creating the illusion of how active the site was in my area. Well, I hope they wake up and give the free guy the ability to see for themselves if the monetary investment is justified.