My post is on partly envying the blessed souls who got their physical companions or relations in harmony with the reality that exists as culture and our own ingrained taboos and ethics. That's why on a platform like this where free will and exploration should have been the spirit we are mired by doubts and repurcussions. We tend to be cautious, protective and inhibited. I would like to get comments on how to build a rapport with truly explorative minded couples or females, what you would look for in a male irrespective of their status lines and profile headlines to initiate communication and feel comfortable to communicate and get to know them better.