What do you consider Cheating? Blog Discussion

Just looking at pornography is cheating. Sharing nudes to someone else is cheating. Man am I a big cheating slut. 

Cheating on your rubber doll is out of order

I am relatively new to this lifestyle, are polyamorous relationship the normal expectations in this lifestyle.

I believe that to be in an open relationship you love your partner but are not in love with himher. 

 Confusion  each  partners is thinking something different is OK but 90% of the things you’re doing or not OK you just choose not to think about it or talk about it until you fall in love with someone else besides your partner emotions change everything I love conquers all

There is no such thing as cheating, as we are all individuals.
We may love someone in life, but sometimes a change in sexual partner can keep us together, instead of separation forever!

Cheating is conversation with a sexual presence and thoughts of back door sliding

It completely depend on the person but true jealousy will come into play at certain point, may be for some people it will take 10 years or for some it will take 1-2 years, honesty is the key to balance. you will cheat eventually whether you are in open relationship or not because after certain age you will need support and you will get attach to someone not necessary your spouse, it may be a case where you get attach to one of your play mate so  the only thing left is lust.. if you are just doing it to get your lust out and then boom no feeling whatsoever then you will survive but no one knows how long so again it depends on person to person.

If you have a truly open relationship, meaning you allow each other to play outside the marriage, then I’m sure that’s a hard to challenge your partner with the concept of cheating  and or clearly specify what cheating is.  We are in the lifestyle as partners  therefor we only play together and we get off with the enjoyment of watching and participating 

Having a relationship without one's partner's knowledge would be "cheating" in my opinion.

To be unfaithful to me has always been if your partner does not know that you are playing with some one other then her or that you are playing with some one more then her and she does not know it.That your partner was not asked to be in the play as well.

If your in a relationship but if it's an open one were both can have other partners its not cheating 

If you are involved with some one. And you are having sex with another person. That is cheating. 

secrets are cheats.... when partner does not know...open honest , great communication is awesome  relationship in poly

I would consider having sex outside the marriage if you and your spouse don’t have an open marriage  

Having physical relations outside  one's  partner adds spice to life  if it is kept secret from your partner

Married to a sexless older woman. Would consider cheating for sex [NSA] only

If you find yourself having to keep secrets it's probably cheating. 

I love variety god has made so many different types of beautiful women. So why limit loving only one all our life.  In fact polygamy xxxxites me like anything. But due to nasty viruses out there. One needs to be careful and this creates that barrier in enjoying fully. Other wise frankly speaking would have been more than happy being the most happy happening playboy gigolos for princess middle aged and lovely 40+ mature queens all my life apart from my darling wife queen. 
Also if viruses were not out there would have loved to see darling wife queen getting condom fucked by men. While I am with my queens in same room same bed. 
In protected mode. 
God's wonderful creation is women and their lovely body right from head to toe including my weakness delicate vagina and busty feminine busts. (: 
God bless all the women around the world. 

With a partner that has been deemed terminally ill and has not been able to kiss or even hold each other is it wrong tttt

I do agree with your opinion 

I would like to have this type of session

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I think that in a open relationship that both partners would have to agree on who meets who any secret rendezvous would be classed as cheating

Anything done in secret...not telling your partner when your going to have sex with someone else. 

If you make a decision one way or the other you stick by it crossing the line is dangerous 

I think cheating is if you are with someone and you find out they are fucking someone else

When one partner discovers that the other is cheating   there are heart-wrenching emotional effects. Unfortunately,   cheating cannot always simply be defined as having sex with someone outside of your relationship.cheating comes in a variety of shapes and forms, but they are all equally devastating.

I am currently single. What follows applies to when I am partnered. 
An open relationship, for me, implies my partner knows who I play with. Any playmate and every play-away-from-home is discussed in advance. If my partner is not happy with the situation then I refrain from playing. I expect th same integrity from my partner. As a single male I expect any partnered person to be honest with his spouse before arranging a session with me. Naive I know.  

I am currently single. What follows applies to when I am partnered. 
An open relationship, for me, implies my partner knows who I play with. Any playmate and every play-away-from-home is discussed in advance. If my partner is not happy with the situation then I refrain from playing. I expect th same integrity from my partner. As a single male I expect any partnered person to be honest with his spouse before arranging a session with me. Naive I know.  

As long as the other partner knows what you are doing and doesn't mind it's ok but this goes both ways if you don't approve of her being with other men then don't be with other women like I said it goes both ways

I think it is unfaithful for a wife to stop spanking my daily bare bottom spankings that I enjoy everyday 

Not cheating if you both agree.

In an open relationship it is a good idea to have an agreement up front that new relations are discussed before they start. That way if no discussion takes place it is considered being unfaithful

At the start for many of us Frank and open discussion should be established, if boundaries are set then try and keep to them, but if in the heat of the moment rules were broke, then the partner should come and tell the other partner quickly. 

Cheating in my opinion is,when you try getting in touch with others on the site,without telling the partner or partners,that this is what you intend to do.in other words going behind there backs.Whicj to me is totally wrong.Each one on the site,be it couples or singles,should set out to keep informed there partners of what you would like to fo,without actually cheating.But discussing the subject first.thus preventing any falling out and unpleasantness.

I think if both agree on a open relationship or swinging their probably should have a few ground rules to start 

I am like it so much and svinging is amazing feeling I think and I love that feeling so much😍

Cheating is going out with a woman you fancy.....you can call it what you want but it is cheating ....Trust in a relationship is something you earn ..you ,lose trust in a relationship  ..Well it's over..and I bet that you never tell your partner that you had that innocent meet up.

Cheating is anything you do that you wouldn't do if you thought your significant other would ever find out.

If your relationship isn OPeN then there is no cheating right ?

I believe anything outside of agreed upon rules between a couple is cheating. 

Good morning. Good day 
I am from bangalore India 

Okay iam interested for open relationship

Cheating to me is where your other half does not know what or who your doing. Meaning if you find a woman that is willing to play then contact your other half and let her know what your doing. Your not asking if you relationship is open. Your just letting her know what your doing. This goes both ways. If she asked me over I would expect you to know about it... It is a trust thing. If there is no trust there is no relationship open or not. So it is simple.. Just let her or him know what or and your doing. Im very open and very honest and strait foreword. But I will only play if both are there or the other one knows what is going on...

First of all, jealousy doesn't happen in healthy relationships,it is a symptom,a sign your partner does not care to do or not do the things that make one feel secure in a relationship weather it is an open relationship or not ...having said that...sex with someone other than your relationship partner isn't the problem....its the lies...once again...its not the sex with another that makes one crazy ...its the lies that often accompany this extracurricular activity....THAT is the "cheating" component...
WITH HONESTY EVERYTHING CAN BE WORKED ON...ANYTHING CAN BE WORKED OUT....
Start with a lie,end with goodbye

Depends on the agreement with your partner , best bet talk about it and get permission if that's your agreement just follow the same as you expect to get back

I think its all depends on individuals, in open relation you don't have responsblity after words but at the same time whey you are togather need very special attention

Since it is mainly for experience.For deeper and deeper experience together unlimited freedom is essential.Hence faith fulness does not arise

Never been in a polyamorous relationship so I don't know. Think about how much I am missing. I only have one woman to keep happy, living expenses are kept in check, and at this time I am looking at dying alone. You gotta look at the positive.

I would think that if your in a open relationship andor swinging your both aware of it and that would make it ok, the cheating part comes in when one of the partners doesnt tell or inform there other half that there having sex with someone else, the secrecy would make it way wrong, the truth and honesty part would be shot and lead to problems that would I'm sure ruin the relationship.

Yet to experience polyamorous relationship but yes I am in for it!!!

very nice i like it 

Whatever the type of relationship, the best thing is say nothing and do what you think is best for you.

well rules should be set before hand about how far each of you can go so if one partner breaks those rules whatever they might be i guess that would be considered unfaithful ie if one partner is seeing other people without their partner's knowledge 🤔 

I would never be in a polygamous relationship

In an open relationship, having sex secretly with another person is cheating.

Anything done in secret, kept from your partner(s) is cheating.

What are you coming to a sex site for if you're not here to find sex partners and sex parties?  Jealousy should never enter your heart if you're happy together then why risk your relationship?  Just wondering.

I consider love the insane emotion that makes someone want to ruin you emotionally. So falling in love is cheating...

I'm not cheating