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This is something that has been on my mind because I have heard a variety of people proclaim that they believe one gender is better than another. Some may take a look at my profile and think that I believe t****en are Superior to women. My answer to t****ay surprise you. 
How I See Superiority The truth is that I see anyone that takes the stance that one sex or gender identity is better than another as arrogant and foolish. In other words, their an idiot. There is no evidence to say that one is better than the other. There are advantages and disadvantages to each from a biological, sociological, anthropological, and societal perspective.I see the concept of Superiority as a form of insecurity for those that fear the lack of power. I do not have such a fear. Even when my life seems to be turning to ash I am still confident in my own personal power. This is because I have taken responsibility for my actions and****can't control what happens to me, I can control how I respond to it.This is why****om every girl I meet. I don't feel she owes me anything and I don't get upset when a girl does not return my messages or even wants to talk to me. I might get disappointed but never upset. I will only Dom, degrade, or otherwise interact with others in a way that the****ve consented to. Sometimes that consent is direct, like in a message or in person, or it is indirect, like when they put how they like to be treated in the About Me section of their profile.I see tho****om others that have not consented to it as not confident in their Dominance. This is because they seek exterior validation that they are in fact Dominant as oppose to being totally secure in their own power. I believe that true Dominance starts from within and needs no exterior validation because the most important form of Dominance is over one's self. Only then can there be Dominance over another.What one should really strive for is Respect. 


Superiority VS RespectabilityThere is also a difference between being Superior and being Respected. Just because you (and maybe others) see you as Superior does not mean you are Respected and just because you are Respected does not mean you are Superior. 
Personally, I would much rather be Respected than seen as Superior. Respected means that I have been a good person to others. Superior just means that I have achieved a position of power but I could have done that while being a complete dick to people. 
I respect those that deserve it. I respect people of all sexes, gender identities, and designations. I respect the D0m/es, Masters, Mistresses, Ladies, etc. that do things to improve people's lives both in and outside of the community. I respect those that treat others with respect and are confident in their own Dominance. 
I respect the subs, servants, girls, etc. for having the strength and courage to surrender control over to another human being and I especially respect them when they show the great maturity and strength it takes to reclaim their power when they realize a relationship isn't working for those involved anymore. 
I respect the switches and any other designation that does not fall into what I have already listed for being true to themselves and not letting anybody tell them who they should or should not be. It always bugs me when I see or hear others telling someone to be something that that person does not really want to be. It's none of their business and they should stick a heavily used gym sock in it. 
I will admit that I do have a personal problem with the term Goddess and anything similar to it whether it be for men, women, or other. This is mainly because every time that I have seen it used there is an implied sense of Superiority and an air of arrogance. 
Mostly, I respect those that identify and become very clear as to what they want and aren't willing to waiver on it. That, I think, takes the greatest strength of all. Whether it be in a dynamic, a romantic relationship, or whatever else, to stick to your standards and pursue your needs, wants, and desires is a noble act that deserves respect. 
So why is my profile the way it is? 

The Truth About My ProfileI specifically and purposefully made my profile in such a way that it would give others a good idea of what I'm looking for while at the same time giving a fairly clear picture of what their life would be like. This has two purposes: 
1) It filters out those looking here that would not want that kind of relationship. It saves both of us time and gives them a little insight into how my play works. 
2) It has the potential to attract those that really want that kind of relationship or are at least curious about it. This way I can spend more time with those that are more likely to be what we're both looking for. 
My profile seems to be in direct contradiction to what I've written so far. How can I believe one thing but act as though I believe in something else? 
The short answer is I'm weird like that and I'm a Gemini if that helps at all. The long answer is at no point do I ever say that I am better than the other person. Even when I degrade them it doesn't mean that I really believe what I am telling them (or in some cases making them say it themselves). I know that it takes great strength to be able to take that and I respect them for it. 
So if I don't believe it, why do I degrade them? I'm glad I pretended you asked me. It's because I like being particularly cruel. I am a Sadist. A Happy Sadist, but, a Sadist none the less. I like strong impact implements like aluminum paddles that cause a great deal of physical pain, I like treating women as a piece of fuck meat for me to use (after they've consented to it), and I like being absolutely mean. It's what puts me in my dark happy place and gives me my sinister laugh. 
Even with all of that, I care deeply for those in my charge. I can't help it. It's who I am and I will always do what's best for the other person, even if it means ending the relationship because it is no longer good for them. Even if I feel it is still good for me. 
As a Master, I feel that by accepting the control and authority over another living creatures life, whether that be human or animal, is a major responsibility that I take seriously. I feel that by accepting that responsibility I am in a way providing a service to them. That way it remains a reciprocal relationship. 
To make a long story short (too late) I may be an asshole, but I am not a complete dick. 
What are your views about Superiority, Dominance, and submission? I love to hear other peoples perspectives.

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