One week is all it took !
After much deliberation i have decided to pen down my first time experience. I have grown up in a very orthodox family(like most of us here) but that never stopped me from thinking independently for my self. In all these years i have always been aware that talking about sex is a taboo for most of us (thankfully things are changing)
I feel we have as a society hyped it to a level that we think its the ultimate thing in the universe. i also look sex a means of liberating oneself. Looking back to my experience, im happily married for 10yrs and have a lovely wife. we had a golden rule which has helped us sail through effortlessly. WE NEVER IMPOSE OUR VIEWS ON EACH OTHER. We have always respected each others point of views(sounds too good to be true isnt it?? ) Well we have our share of disagreements too. A strange feeling emerged as i turned thirty nine i had open discussion with my wife to about liberating ourselves to the world we have never explored. (I'm yet to get a " buy in " from my wife of her participation though) She has been very supportive and wished well for me,(hopefully will join me some day soon) . So i did some look out for websites where i could get on and explore this side of the world. Thanks to technology i got oh to this site pretty soon. I realized soon that this world too had its insecurities. Many fake people hanging out , many people who constantly suspect others ingenuity and misjudge them. Many first timers like me lots of thoughts in mind.
is it right ? Is it safe? Will i be duped? what if im cheated? will i be blackmailed etc etc etc ....... All these thoughts stopped the moment i decided there is nothing to loose in this world rather than living a life of regret , i didnt explore the world i wanted to.
I took my precautions and got in touch with a girl who wanted to meet. We took it easy met at a coffee shop, became comfortable and then headed out. It was a liberating experience for me , as it got me closer to reality, a world i had never thought i would experience.
This blog is not about just sex and desperation , its about self discovery for me. A possibility that opened up and a world that i would have never known had i suppressed my self from exploration. I read somewhere " When your fearless, Life becomes limitless" in true sense.
The reality hit me so quick that i realize now "One week is all it took" After much deliberation i have decided to pen down my first time experience. I have grown up in a very orthodox family (like most of us here) but that never stopped me from thinking independently for my self. In all these years i have always been aware that talking about sex is a taboo for most of us (thankfully things are changing)
I feel we have as a society hyped it to a level that we think its the ultimate thing in the universe. i also look sex a means of liberating oneself. Looking back to my experience, i'm happily married for 10 years and have a lovely wife. we had a golden rule which has helped us sail through effortlessly. WE NEVER IMPOSE OUR VIEWS ON EACH OTHER. We have always respected each others point of views(sounds too good to be true isn't it?? ) Well we have our share of disagreements too.
A strange feeling emerged as i turned 39, i had an open and free discussion with my wife to about liberating ourselves to the world we have never explored. (I'm yet to get a " buy in " from my wife of her participation though) She has been very supportive and wished well for me,(hopefully will join me some day soon) . So i did some look out for websites where i could get on and explore this side of the world. Thanks to technology i got oh to this site pretty soon. I realized soon that this world too had its insecurities. Many fake people hanging out , many people who constantly suspect others ingenuity and misjudge them. Many first timers like me lots of thoughts in mind.
is it right ? Is it safe? Will i be scammed? what if i'm cheated? will i be blackmailed etc etc etc ....... All these thought ceased the moment i decided there is nothing to loose in this world rather than living a life of regret , i didn't explore the world i wanted to.
I took my precautions and got in touch with a girl who wanted to meet. We took it easy met at a coffee shop, became comfortable and then headed out. It was a liberating experience for me , as it got me closer to reality, a world i had never thought i would experience.
This blog is not about just sex and desperation , its about self discovery for me. A possibility that opened up and a world that i would have never discovered had i suppressed my self from exploration. I read somewhere " When your fearless, Life becomes limitless" in true sense.
The reality hit me so quick that i realize now "One week is all it took"
