Why women prefers to stay silent.

Men are more vocal towards the topic sex rather than women. In Filipino culture, women are believed to be conservative as fck, we are not allowed to talk about sex in public places because of a stigma. A stigma that embodies a woman to be faithful, family-oriented, and should behave appropriately in public or private places.

However, time and culture develops, influence and curiosity make us vulnerable, lastly, pleasure and pain comes together. Sex is a diverse thing. As all of the things can change, so is sex.

Men can become house husband too, men can become dependent, men can become weak and vulnerable, and men can also be faithful.

I want to clear something here, all of us, humans, has this innate need for sex, whether you’re young, just fine, old, lgbtq+, and sometimes even you’re silently working.

Let me give you an example of why women prefers to stay silent and keeps sex a matter of secrecy, some men tends to like women who are demure, women who are silent, women who are calm, women who somehow has the same personality as their mothers, but why does some men doesn’t want to have a girl or a woman beside them who are open to sex? It’s because of being possessive? Because of ego? Because of pride? Because of familiarity?

No, it’s because you think that that/this woman/women that talks openly about sex is filty, dirty, or just because. Sometimes I think that men, who thinks like that are scumbags, sometimes, selfish, because they only think of themselves.

Based in one of a research that I have read for quite sometime now, women has a greater percentage of being aggressive towards the topic of sex rather than men. Why is that? It’s because women tend to daydream a lot about sex, because somehow, they feel down by being a woman who can’t have a good fuck. It may also reflect that women as a higher population now than men.

Not only men needs a good fuck, even women needs it.

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