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just some rules that i play by :)

11:22 am Tuesday, 30th April, 2019

Everyone has their own rules for the lifestyle alongside the generic ones of trust, compatibility and decency etc
Here are my own.

1- openness, it’s a must for me if you can’t be upfront and honest about things then there’s no play, hell not even a friendship. I don’t care if you’re cheating etc as long as you say you are.

2- every session will be planned in advance, limits likes dislikes and most importantly consent.

3- aftercare, again it’s a must regardless of the type of session.

4- what roles are being played you will remember that at the end of the day we are all human, if you can’t value that then there will be no play.

5- consent, if at some point you or I change our minds about at play session regardless of the stage we are at everything stops. No means no simple as that.

6- compatibility, I like things to be relaxed and fun even it’s some hard kink if there’s no joy or laughter it just doesn’t feel right, who says you have to be straight faced while getting spanked or punished ( brats I’m looking at you )

7- if the fun stops we stop, again with consent, sometimes the mood changes and something isn’t as fun as it was before. Don’t hesitate to say something.

8- trust, yes I mentioned this earlier however sometimes you just have to delve into the subject a bit further, if you’re playing with me it’s because I trust you and hopefully the feeling will be the same towards me, I value openness never feel you can’t talk to me regardless of what is happening, speak your mind on anything, being open and comfortable is what this is all about.

If these rules are good with you then you’re good with me.
Happy exploring everyone.



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