Hey let me start off by saying i have never blogged about anything in my life before . I was married to the woman of my dreams . She was 5 feet 2 inches with long dark hair , and brown eyes , she was not sexually adventurous as myself but she did have a little of what she called a kinky side , she liked it when we had sex outside in the daytime , and she really liked anal sex. But that was about as kinky as she got . I was always up for more adventurous things but as everyone should i respected her wishes , and just I enjoyed her body . Now that part of my life is over, and we have gone our own ways, ill always look back on our time together with fond memories . But now it's time for me to really see what my kink looks like . I joined a few dating sites. I put some work in on my profile , and got a few hits , But nothing to write home about as they say . The few hook ups was not what i was looking for . I mean they was all very nice and they were all very nice looking . But the sex was just not ,Well lets say they was good but my kink would want to kick in and none of them was into anything other then maybe a little doggie style . No anal or anything. I have had my sexual bucket list in my head for years , so i took pen to paper and wrote them down, then i did what everyone does these day i went to the internet to see if i could fine other people like myself . And that is how i got here .