As a younger person I was first introduced into this confusion of feelings by an older female.She would dig her nails into my back during her orgasm then mine! The mixed feelings of pleasure allied with pain intensified my orgasm.It is not something I have explored further and have no wish to do so, but I can now understand why others enjoy pain and why it increases orgasm and intensity of sexual experience.I myself will never go beyond some back scratching but would happily inflict pain to a sub if she truly desired it.I am not a Sadist so inflicting pain gives me no pleasure at all and is contrary to my nature, but when dealing with subs one must supply their needs.Sometimes in a Dom/sub, Master/s***e relationship it can be difficult to know who is really in control! I love it 😀
