I guess it makes sense.
When you’re in you’re early ****’s it’s about sex sex and more sex. Then you meet someone and it starts as loads of sex until it becomes the same ol sex !! Why??
I’m now 50. I have had the best sex I’ve ever had. Why? I’m not complaining. But why now??
Lying in bed after amazing sex a woman asked me “what kind of sex did I like”. First time in my life I didn’t have an answer. I had never been asked before and I never thought about it in that way. I know what I’m good at and know what I like. I like passion I like pleasuring I never thought about boundaries and how far they could go. I realized that talking and asking is a part of real pleasure.