undefined There’s something about getting down and dirty with a stranger that turns a lot of us on. Whether it’s the mystery involved in having a stranger touching your most intimate places or the care-free, no strings attached aspect of this encounter, this is a popular fantasy. For lots of women, the thought of taking control of their bodies is liberating and allows them to feel sexy and empowered.
so, here’s the simplest and truest answer:
You shouldn’t have to convince her. A girl knows within the first few seconds of meeting you if she could do it with you. They want someone who is kind and safe and likely to result in an orgasm and no negative attachments.
Be fit, or fitter than them, clean, groomed to their style’s preference and standard and having a good time. Nobody wants to go be alone with a bummer.
Don’t try too hard. If you’re just looking for sex then be clear. I don’t mean be rude, I don’t mean tell the girl you’re only interested in one thing, but there’s no need to play games. Have a drink or two, talk to her, be friendly and kind and do not push. Break the touch barrier respectfully with your hand on hers, or her arm, or just a fingertip on her knee.try to connect on any slightly meaningful level. If you feel that connection, say the magic words: If they want to go somewhere alone with you it’s a pretty darn good sign that they’re interested in getting physical. If they don’t, they don’t trust you yet.
