Ok I'm just getting things off my chest but I have a (male) friend that wanted to explore his bi-side and he came upon an opportunity to get some action with a lady and this apparently Bi person but he wasn't prepared! He was was subjected to an experience that has traumatized him. It's taking a lot of talking to lift him from his gloom. It seems that there is more than a fair share of animals out there that just want to stick their cock in anything that stops moving long enough. These people have no concept of sexual pleasure and only seem to operate at basic instinct level, avoid them like the plague - unless you get pleasure from being abused!
Take care and watch out for the animals.