I get turned on when I am wearing lingerie-that much I know and accept. What I am never sure about, is whether I am turned on by the lingerie itself, or by me wearing it.
I mean ,visiting a lingerie shop is a real turn on, which suggests it is the lingerie itself-or it could be my mind extrapolating to the wearing of such delightful lacy garments.
And again, is it the "me" wearing those items or could it be that my mind is looking at me wearing the clothes. but emotionally identifying my body as someone else. I mean, to just look at myself naked, does not attract me at all.
