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A Liberal Psyche Of A Liberal Society

9:06 am Tuesday, 1st January, 2019

Have always wondered the things we see and learn about from our lifestyle.We have tried to illustrate our findings in a piece about how individual think and act.
I have been reading and writing regularly, when I talk about relationships Chaaya is the most uninterested person I come across initially.She still fails to understand why people have complicated the relation and I still don’t have an answer ! 
I've tried talking about the economics of marriage to her and failed miserably ! She said till the time she is happy and living a life full of freedom she does not need to make her relation Maths or Economics.Now I know why men do not argue with a woman ! To a point, I'd go so far as to say that we have a deep interest in certain things that might affects us and she as an individual is very particular about who she ends up committing even for fun also.If you have too little time or honesty problems really get build up.For us it doesn't really work because we are active just once or at the max twice a year and the kind of platform we are in every other person knows how to roll the dice.On the other hand,the real problem is whenever the person roll the dice he wants to hit the jackpot ! 
I've also spoken to many well-off men and there wife who believe that the lifestyle they offer entitles some elements to treat women like property.Seriously ! 
Contradictory we have never come across a person who has been disrespectful or rude.We may have not like the attitude or he might be bit impatient but not rude.May be because we maintain a low profile and not being exposed to larger platform but I personally believe the first few conversation is more than enough to understand.Though there's no illusion of love and there's no written social contract to follow but there has to be certain degree of foundation laid.
Companionship of few is always better than a Casual of all.Because there's no pretense of dating or love involved, I had a feeling that probably we saw a side of men and woman that most married couples never see.Chaaya also had a feeling that she probably knew men better than most others do.Since we converse with people,they open up without having to fear that they might loose someone or hurt someone. When we start reading messages we notice Guys are looking for a fun, plain and simple.Yes, some look for only sex,but others just want the companionship mix with sex in all honesty.Most of the men I speak were married or in committed relationships.They ran the gamut from the office guy to the high-powered businessman, to the frumpy husband who has children at home.Even if they are rich, they aren't relaxed, per se.They have a nagging boss at office, they have work stress... a million things.
Men,from what Chaaya has spoken,often want to escape that.
The illusion of control is another thing.They get to control the fantasy.They decide what They do. Similarly Wife knows she will move ahead once she is really interested and that control of freedom is phenomenal and so is for others.
The power of choice has always been a big deciding factors for guys like me and really enjoy the fact things have really change over a decade and now we are more liberal and conscious about the other gender as well.One never know what a person is going through.Life is not easy to any of us.But no one decides what and how we should do things.It is suppose to be a liberal democratic platform where we all decide our own rules.



Comments
12:08 am Thursday, 3rd January, 2019

Cool. I Read ur Thought. Liked it!

8:01 am Thursday, 3rd January, 2019

Long thought but the zest is missing are arrange the words again to write you opinion again 

8:01 am Thursday, 3rd January, 2019

Long thought but the zest is missing are arrange the words again to write you opinion again 

4:49 pm Thursday, 3rd January, 2019

what I understand is, you want "How to be important". and it's nice, you have set a mind set of this year. Hope we meet one day!! Anyway, Happy New Year 2k19

7:02 am Wednesday, 23rd January, 2019

Ummm....very deep n intense thoughts. Quite intellectual stuffs in indeed. We mostly like thinking people. Would love to know more about your inner thoughts guys. Cheers.

1:53 pm Wednesday, 30th January, 2019

You touched the blood stream of thoughts that run in mind while on this website appreciated 

10:38 am Friday, 1st February, 2019

Obviously, fear of being controlled is primarily the reason why people love to be uncontrolled in their ways of doing things....after all the meaning of freedom and liberty is all about that only...everyone is trying to taste that freedom in some way or other

5:42 pm Wednesday, 13th February, 2019

I am interested so reply me 

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