There are echoes of a silence between a Dominant and the submissive that rarely get to be spoken in words or phrases much less full sentences. Rather most of us only hear a grunt or sob, maybe even a sigh at the end of a session or task. The fragile emotions displayed and concealed within these commanded exchanges are the emotions each should be listening for in every moment. The extension of such wonders are usually left to the deaf Dominant in the fragile relationship as they ignore the whimpers of the submissive. The surface of her skin flutters with known and calculated emotions we all recognize in our daily lives, but under, in the subspace, exists the deafness of her expressions that only a few dare attempt to interpret. Those with the touch have been able to hear the colours or aura because they closed their eyes, their ears and listened with their mind's eye properly.
We, as D/s participants, need to listen in subspace of our mindset each other's emotions as if we where both deaf of ever know how to rid each other's past before any moment of interaction. Discard the baggage of old experiences stored in the ridges and valleys of miss firing neurons before, during and after orgasmic pleasures. Instead wallow in the glow and energy that is new and fresh in a new day. Let go. Otherwise this poem of friend might be yours?
Under my skin are more than bruises from you.
The sadness seeps into my heart and it cracks to the sounds of icicles forming as it shatters my soul once again without you to listen to me crying in your laughter.
This is not your command.
This is your pleasure.
This is me.
This is
Not what I submitted to you.
What if that emotion was under the skin, under the breath, under the soul, waiting because you are not listening to the emotions within your touch away from your ears. Domination is not meant to be cruel or harmful to the emotion state of another human being. It was to build the submissive into a whole being, stable and independent of her sexual wants and needs, so that she could flower and achieve goals outside the struggles of social restraints. Read some history of this lifestyle before you dive into the fun! The water may be much deeper than you think and filled with emotions impossible to hear!
G.
