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Getting old is not for the faint hearted !!

7:19 am Wednesday, 5th December, 2018

We all have a fear of getting old and losing our youthful looks, energy and libido that attracted the opposite sex to us.
Well, I am at that stage of my life now and oh boy.. it sucks.

I join these sites in the hope that , just maybe, there will be someone that sees beyond the grey hair and the wrinkles and the evidence of declining years on this earth.
However, it appears that I am well past my sell by date and am more than often just ignored.
How do I feel ?

That is not hard to answer. I feel dejected, rejected and totally worthless.
All i ask is that i be given the chance to show that despite my exterior , there is still a warm, caring, loving, passionate, sensual and interesting soul beneath the wrinkles and grey hair.

I was fortunate enough to be blessed with reasonable good looks and ...mmmm.. well dare i say.. an effective and well endowed piece of equipment. In my younger days I had no problem in finding someone to share my "talents" with, but now, understandably, i am finding it rather difficult.

Women, on the other hand , have that wonderful ability to attract younger guys because there are many of them out there that enjoy the experience that only a more mature woman can bring to the bedroom. Furthermore, the female "equipment" is so designed as to never to fail one in times of need albeit the occasions when illness or womanly problems arise. The male counterpart, however, experiences difficulty at the best of times, in rising to the occasion and this can be a serious and embarrassing situation.

Would it be too much to ask to find an understanding woman that can appreciate all that a more mature guy can bring into the relationship. Although the sexual arena has become so open and liberated over the past few decades and the media have opened new doors of "learning" , us oldies have had to educate ourselves with a very limited array of literature or video tuition, which is so readily available today. This led to many bad experiences and some oh so very embarrassing moments, but through it all we persevered and have come out with an array of self taught techniques and means of ensuring our partners are well satisfied .

Oh I know that the younger generation will shoot me down in flames for my comments but I believe we had the best of times as we went through the adolescent learning curves of sexual development without the aid of intense visual stimulation which is now only a computer click away.
It was a time of furtive touching and groping in the movies or in the back seat of a car before we were fortunate enough to get our first glimpse of those beautifully tantalizing female "parts". Nowadays all it takes is to switch on the phone or the computer to be welcomed into the realm of exposed females of all ages happily exposing to the universe, what we only dreamed about in our youth.

So before you ridicule or condemn us older folk please bear in mind that we did a full "apprenticeship" in the art of sexual pleasure and not an abridged and concise version of it . Our working experience has been a lifetime of physical learning which has endowed us with a vast knowledge on how to satisfy and please our partners.

In closing, bear in mind that we all have to face this time in our lives and maybe one day you will remember these comments and think, as I do, if only I had experienced more of those incredible and mind blowing encounters which culminated in intense sexual pleasure.

Thank you for reading and please add your comments whatever they may be.



Comments
12:40 pm Wednesday, 5th December, 2018

Those yongens....   They my visually see and learn...    But the confidence and experience is lacking...   I am sure....but what do I know?  I am gray and old like you!  Thank you for the read.

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