A bit more about me.

Although my husband and I are separated we still share a house (separate rooms), bills etc, this will NOT change, he's my best friend.

I'm not a very good communicator (too scared to open my mouth for fear of saying the wrong thing or saying it the wrong way or hurting your feelings. But once you get me to open up I'll ramble on a bit before getting to the point lol), can't flirt or talk dirty and have almost no imagination.
I use 'bottom' to describe me as I've been told I'm not submissive enough, but for the right D type anything is possible.
Apparently I 'top from the bottom'. All I'm really doing is telling my D type what I like, don't like, hurts too much, doesn't hurt enough etc, giving him info on me and my thoughts. What he chooses to do with that info is still his decision, he's still in charge, doesn't mean I'm going to get what I want.
I'm a person that needs reasons. Reasons why I can't do this or that, why I can't have this or that, why I can't go here or there, why I can or can't wear this or that, etc. 'Because I'm the Dom and I said so' isn't really enough for me. Once I understand the reasoning behind the command/order/rule (and it's valid/reasonable) then I'll follow to the best of my ability.
I like rules & protocols but it's not the be all and end all for me either. If my D type doesn't have many then I'm not going to feel I'm missing out either.
I'm a smoker and won't quit because you want me to, if/when I do it'll be because I want to. Having said that: if there's no smoking in your house etc then I totally respect that.
I've been called 'a greedy cunt' when it comes to wanting your attention but I won't be ignored like some booty call, only hearing from you when you want something.
I don't do online only or long distance (interstate or overseas).
Willing to travel within reason (I'm in the outer South East suburbs).
I’m a bit of a tomboy, it’s rare you’ll see me in a skirt or dress, almost never see me with makeup.
While I love wearing collar and leash I'm not a pet.
I’ve had a Daddy Dom before and thoroughly enjoyed it but I don't think I was 'little' enough for him.
I'm abut there's still some pain receiving things I won't do.
I'm willing to try new things, after plenty of discussion and explanation of what's involved. Probably try it at least once to see. If after that it interests me...lets go!
Not into humiliation or degradation.
I will not be a part of some Dom's stable. It's one on one only or not at all for me. I WILL NOT share my Dom in any way (not counting his family, work or friends of course). I am very monogamous to the one I'm seeing and expect the same in return. Not too much to ask surely?
I love motorcycle riding, passenger only, I don't have a license and not interested in getting one. I have my own leather jacket, boots and helmet.
Absolutely adore orange, the colour the smell the taste. Addicted to my games on the iPad when home with nothing to do.
Preferred age group: 45-60. While this is my preference it depends on the person of course, age is but a number.

I realise there's a lot of 'no's' up there ^^^ but why not get in touch and find out what the 'yes's' are? Ask the questions and you'll get HONEST answers. I'm just me, do you want to find out who 'me' is?

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