Too often a DOMINANT player forgets that the submission of another comes with emotional issues.
Compassion and passion are needed to care for a submissive. The needs and wants of a such an honour must be respected with listening skills. Too many interested in this lifestyle fail to listen and waste the true nature of the relationship.
This natural state of sharing and giving of power allow an individual to enjoy the other at will. The submission enables the DOMINANT to taste a woman or have her at whim but if he fails to listen to her body ques, he will rarely enjoy her to a fullness she is capable of giving him. Training is that time to listen and enjoy how she reacts to your voice and touch. Patience is a virtue for a good reason. A woman will tell you everything she enjoys and wants during conversation and how her body moves around you if you are patient enough to watch her before you engage.
What is the rush....spoiling a submissive is the worse thing I have come across in this cyberspace of interactions. Self control is what a DOMINANT uses and without it you are just a perverse old man or worse, a perverted young man.
Submission of a woman to man is a historic relationship with passion respect and sensibility at the core. If you're not there then why are you submitting your body and mind at all?
