Hi, Do you recall the day you first joined the site, I'm just wondering why before I'd even finished my profile I got mail yes from the add min an from a member. I think you should probably wait before paying and see how many people respond to you. I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of these women on this site aren't real, but thats okay if they state that are just working I'm willing to pony up to the bar and order a round, it's just for fun and stress release. But please don't lead me on that's just a cruel and unnecessary. Robert