Newbies - the challenge

1:01 pm Tuesday, 14^th August, 2018

sexandthesuburbans83

We are your average busy couple managing life and love each other very much. After having that initial nerve wracking conversation where we opened up (after a few drinks) and decided to take the plunge as a couple, here we are. For us we were both nervous about talking openly because what if one person wanted more than the other or had a change of heart. A great honest night long chat really helped us know where we stood. Followed by great sex lol. Having been together for years and happily married this was a world we talked about and fantasized about but it turns out knew little about. Naive maybe? Firstly our Google took a bashing looking up  what words meant activities. We are only a short bit into our journey where we have braved chatting online but what has worked for us is talking honestly and openly about what we want, fancy, our maybe and are a no go. So far it has brought us closer which has been amazing. We have enjoyed chatting to some lovely genuine people. Because of our life situation we are not always available but it's been nice meeting similar people in similar situations that understand. Our next venture is to share pic or web cam and possibly meet. The challenge is for us that we love being in the moment rather than something planned. Anyone else faced this? 

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