Alyshia,Me and Ployandry Relationship

For the last 12th of May it has been two years I was married to Alyshia. We spend all day enjoying the beach, Sun and sand in Weligama. We have been in this swinging and Hotwifing lifestyle for 3 years and we decided to take it to the next level where we don't have to worry about finding singles her to date. She did not know what I had in my mind for her. So after dinner we went to bed, cuddle for a bit and I told her I want to be in a Ployandry Relationship. She was like "What?, What is that?

Poliyandry Relationship/Marriage : polyandry, in which a woman settles down with two or more men. It can be married or living together.

So after explaining to her I thought I would get a slap, Instead she said " Well though we didn't put name to it but aren't we doing the same thing with your Best friend?" Well yeah. Though we don't live in the same house we do see him time to time and Alyshia sexting him as her second husband. It may sounds weird to some and many people call it adultry but we sri lankans had this culture early 1880's until british banned it when they introduce us with marriage system.
So after next day we decided to tell my friend about this carzy but wild Idea. His first reaction was "Man.. I must be really lucky and did some good things in my previous life to meet two best friends like you two". It may sound easy but its not that easy to apply it in real world. Since we live in a country which has many cultural boundaries.
The first problem we have faced is How we gonna apply this. Since Polyandry is illegal in SL we decided to keep my bestfriend as a friend to the out world but as Alyshia's husband to our small world. Next was what we gonna say to our families, parents and friends etc. It was bit tricky as well as easy. The whole family and friends knew this guy was my best buddy from school and we told our parents that my best friend is going to stay with us for a bit coz he have few issues with his family and house. Luckily it went well so no further question were asked. As I said before Alyshia is a attention whore. And I love when she gets the attention she seeks. I love when she gets more and more love. As she said to me she wants more love more care, its not because I'm giving less. She needs more. Simple. It isn't about having sex with him or me watching them. Its more about sharing responsibilities, household duties, bed, marriage and LOVE. There are many advantages of this kind of arrangement. The presence of multiple men creates a greater sense of safety within the family.

So we have arranged our spare room to our newest family member and waiting for his arrival. Will post more updates soon as he arrive.

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