An Exclusive Interview – Meet Alyshia

This is a modified tran****ript from an interview (more likely a chat) we,(My wife) had with an Indian couple for their blog few weeks ago...

Q: You mentioned you have the freedom to pursue your sexual desires. How did thi****ome about in your marriage? Whose idea was it?

A: Shan and I had been through lots of ups and downs in our relationship, Not sexually but mentally. About 5 years ago we had a conversation in a private bus where we hit the right spot. First I thought this is a joke. because I have never heard about husbands who likes to share their own wifes with other men. Though I had a small idea about what threesome is I have never knew what is swinging or Cuckolding. After sometime with lot of talking and watching porn Shan showed me a Website. It was erotic and sexy. I was surprised seeing how many couples on the site. Especially Sri lankan Couples. We started an account and added some pics.
We started talking more about our fantasies and while we didn’t have the same interest in certain things, we were both getting more turned on. The more we talked about things, the hotter the sex got at home.

When he started talking about having another person involved, he suggested another guy. I was IMMEDIATELY shocked…and said No. This was before marriage and I still remember how I slapped him with words and I didn't speak to him for days wondering if this was all a joke because he was this sweet caring most lovable handsome guy I met in life. I really just wanted to see someone else have sex with another woman or something like that. Turns out it was just his fantasy. I kept asking, “Is this because I’m not enough? Do you need someone involved?” and he was wonderful at reassuring me this was just his fantasy and always had been. He wasn’t looking to find another woman.

Eventually we talk more and decided to meet a couple. Just****o anything else.
We finally found a couple… things all worked out right and it started a new phase of our relationship. Having another couple involved was great. But we both felt this was not what we are looking for. The chemistry was great, the dynamics were great, But I was always insecure with the idea of sharing my man with other women.

So we decided to wait until our marriage before try it again. Yes we were in a 13 years of relationship prior marriage yet sharing my main man with other girls was not my thing.


Do you consider yourself a hotwife in the traditional sense of the word?

A: This is bit tough because it depends on how you define it. My husband is not a cuckold although many would think he is because I am the hotwife. In short, I consider us Hotwife/Vixen and Stag.

He likes me to have sex with other men. He likes the confidence I get when I go from introduction to sealing the deal. He likes the attention and love and care I receive when I'm with different men. But he does not like the idea of humiliation or wearing chastity cages in public or public humiliations. We are into mixing with couples, but not going to sex clubs, parties (Not yet). So I guess we’re not swingers. I’ve met with people from here an****her sites. I consider myself a Vixen hotwife.

Q: What are the 3 most appealing things to you about living your life as a hotwife?

A: The sex is one, but it’s more than that, it’s the variety, the excitement, and I get to give pleasure, and receiving the pleasure different ways.

Two It has definitely spiced up our sex life.

Third is freedom, I love the freedom I get to enjoy from my husband. He was a very protective Dominant typical Sri lankan guy few years ago. If you know him personally or If I tell someone about our life, to someone from our high **** time they'll think I'm bluffing.

Q: Some people have a hard time understanding how a hotwife’s husband love her for sexually attracted to other men?

A: I don’t understand it too but I know for us it really works. We have is love, attraction and mutual respect that is stronger than before I became a hotwife. I think it’s a selfless love, he knows he does not have all the things I want and let’s me be free! I try to never take advantage from this freedom I have.

Q: Do you have side boyfriend or do you meet random guys?

A: Ummmm... Yes. I do have a cute boy friend who is much younger than me. He was a member of the crew who covered our wedding. I first met him on our pree shoot session and after the wedding while me and Shan looking for a guy he introduced me to this guy. After few flirty text with him we decided to meet in person. He had no idea about this life style and I had to teach him from the beginning. He is a sweet innocent guy much younger and tall. He said he does not like to be in the same room with my husband as he feels shy. So Shan gave me full freedom to meet him alone and till date I see him alone either in a hotel room or in our house when parents arent home. When my BF comes home Shan leave the house so me and my BF have freedom to explore our sex lives. I text Shan we we are done so he could come home. This is not humiliation because the reason we ****his my BF said he is not feeling comfortable when Shan is around. I love this boy because he respect both me and Shan. I have another gu**** I sexting with, He's Shan's best friend from grade 1.

Q: A lot of hotwives say they’re more happy than ever living this lifestyle. what can you tell us about that?

A: Absolutely! Being a hotwife makes me a stronger and more independent and gave me full confidence about my sexuality and my self.

Q: What are the biggest lies abou****otwife?

A: One is I fuck anyone (absolutely not true at all, I decide who to meet and who to fuck). Another is my husband is a weak man ( Hahaha. He can stay up for hours) an****her one is my husband has a small penis ( Every guy I met with shan were surprised by seeing his size. Im not saying it's 8' inch blah blah.. But you should've see this in real life.).

Q: Do you like to be with girls?

A: Yes I love to be with girls because girls are sexy. In Fact I have been with three girls and all of the exp are fun fun....

Q: What is the best thing happened to you by being a Hotwife?

A: First I get to enjoy the freedom I did not had when we are in the relationship. Second I love the attention because as Shan says I'm a attention ****.lol. Third, I love the way how this lifestyle change our marriage and makes us stronger and brought us more and more closer. I must say I have made few mistakes in the past as well.My only advice is don’t do anything you don’t want to do and take your time! I have been asked this before by one of our regular guy and that is my answer. My sexual appetite is strong to begin with and being a hotwife fills that side of me. Reality is way different than fantasy, After my first time I had developed a feeling about him. I couldn't stop thinking about him. But after few discussions with Shan I managed to get rid of that feeling and start fresh. Now the only feeling I have for my side bf is sex. Nothing else. For him, it's a totally different story. 😉

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