Finding your threesome partner

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Threesomes are a common fantasy, and can be an extremely positive and exciting introduction to your bedroom. But how will you find the perfect third? Your dirty-talk scenario of seducing someone in French over martinis may not be the most realistic, so now what? Should it be a close friend, or a stranger?
It doesn’t matter if you long to be ravished by two men, or to explore your bicuriosity; it is important you and your partner are on the same page about expectations to avoid uncomfortable surprises and hurt feelings during the act. Decide on a signal or word for slowing down or stopping if either of you aren’t feeling comfortable. Some couples may love group play, but have certain acts that will stay off the menu with their thirds.
Once you’ve found someone who’s interested, it’s up to all of you to decide how well you want to get to know each other. Remember, your third is a person, not a toy! Your first concern might be the pleasure of your significant other, but be sure to include your third in the conversation to find out what they want and expect from the encounter. Remember figuring out desired acts and signals with your partner? Keep your third in the loop! It may take a while to find someone who is a good fit for your fantasy, but don’t get discouraged. Finding someone for a threesome should be a fun process you enjoy with your partner, think more flirty first date and less job interview. Who knows, you might want to start seeing this person regularly!

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