A fetishist vanillas fantasy.
This was supposed to be my profile blurb but it would not fit in the space. The profile that I have used is a messy selection of out takes from it. It is, I expect, clear that I am a dreamer trying, too late in life, to break into the scene. Any advice to that end would be gratefully excepted.
On some sites I would not have the bottle to post this but you mostly all seem very friendly.
First a word about my spelling: Bad spelling is, I think, sometimes seen as laziness or an immature character. I suffer from a condition called dyslexia. I work very hard on my spelling, using every tool available.
I am 57 YO. I live close to the border between Wiltshire and Somerset. I like the arts, films, comedy, food, a good laugh. I am quite intelligent but can also be sort of an idiot.
I am interested in being a dom, a master and a sadist. I am not a switch, I have no interest in switching, ever. I am happy to talk to anyone but please note that I am only interested in being dominant.
I would be very happy with a vanilla lady, for a while, but then I would all ways be thinking about the S&M that I really wanted. Not all of are dreams can come true but you get to a point in life where you think you should at least try to make them come true.
I do not really think of my self in any particular way, but I think I might be seen as a cross between a strict head master, a slate trainer and a dirty old man. I play a lot of on line erotic games. My favourite is the slate training games. I can be quite strict and even cruel to my slate (I personally think that they should be punished regularly even if they have not done anything to deserve it) But I find my self caring very much about the slates. If something bad happens I will bye them presents and give them relaxing days off (even though they it does not really help me to win the game).
I can imagine my self in three posable relationships:
In the first, during training / punishment: If she started to cry I would stroke her hair and kiss her back and then explain very gently why the training / punishment was important and has to be completed.
In the second I would be much more cruel. I would not care how much she cried. Would subject her to every kind of pain and humiliation. Would use her as a urinal, an ash tray and would make her stand in the corner until 3 AM.
But, lets make this clear, I do not have or like abusive fantasy’s. My fantasy is a lady who wants exactly what she is getting.
This is a difficult point. If a lady asked “what kind of master are you”, you should not say “any kind you want”. On the other hand being a dom / master does not mean being selfish and I would like to think that whoever I am with would have a fantastic time (I also have my limits) so a compromise might be necessary.
The third would be border line vanilla but, whirl we were playing, I would be a bit controlling and rough.
I also like younger girls, but not exclusively. Lets say up to my age (maybe young at hart).
I am happy to talk to most ladies but please note that I am looking for something in real life. Not just on line. I do not think that I can enter into a full time arrangement at the start. Week ends or one or two evenings a week would be ideal for me (or less if there is a lot of traveling involved). If you travel for work that would be OK as long as you are all mine when we are together. However I am not apposed to things changing over time.
Any advice or information regarding this life style would be gratefully received. I would happily except invites to events, it is just that for the moment my budget is very tight. Also if you are looking for a sugar daddy then sorry but please look elsewhere.
I think that this would have made a good profile, but there is just no way to edit it down to 1000 character.
